byFairygodbosson Mar 31, 2016

Own It - 5 Ways to Use New Motherhood to Reimagine Your Career

Image of Woman Thinking

Photo credit:Mother.ly

Being a new mom can feel like it's only about challenges if you're trying to balance your new family with career. But if you look a little deeper, you just might be able to see that this moment in time comes with an opportunity....
 
Being a new mother can be overwhelming for so many reasons. First there are the physical changes: the shock of birth followed by life-altering fatigue. Then, of course, you have a precious new little human to take care of. On top of it all, many new moms also have a job — and career — to return to after maternity leave.
 
There is no doubt that for some women, becoming a mother completely changes their outlook and perspective on their career. Very real tradeoffs between time and money come into question and your priorities can literally change overnight.
 
While this much change in such a short time can be very difficult, motherhood also presents an opportunity to reassess your career. Having a baby creates a catalyst to think about your job in a whole new way.
 
Here are 5 ways that new motherhood can be harnessed to help you reimagine your career:
 
1. Being a new mom helps you better understand what makes you happy.
 
If you’ve been toiling away in a job that doesn’t excite you, it will be that much harder to return to it. While it’s never easy to leave your baby and go back to work, being able to return to an employer that is supportive, filled with great colleagues and growth opportunities feels infinitely better than going back to a job that you never enjoyed.Take advantage of this moment of clarity to craft a plan to make a change if you need to make one.
 
There are great jobs for new moms, and you may simply have to find an employer that is more family-friendly, or that offers more flexible hours, part-time or remote-working options.
 
2. Being a new mom puts other challenges in perspective.
 
Work can be hard, but now that you’ve been up all night dealing with a newborn, things like office politics and bureaucratic processes may seem, well, a little bit more manageable. As a new mom, you may find it is easier to let go of certain imperfect situations and scenarios at work as you realize that many (previously unimaginable) aspects of life are sometimes simply out of your control.
 
3. Being a new mom encourages you to live up to your values.
 
If your work has not brought you job satisfaction or meaning, you may now be more willing to take the risk of applying for a new job, making a career change, or even starting a new business if it’s more aligned with how you believe you should spend your time — which is an increasingly precious commodity.
 
Now that you have a new baby and family responsibilities on your hands, you may also become more conscious of your evolving role as a living, walking example to your child. Deciding how to spend your time may be a big part of how you decide to be a role model.
 
4. Being a new mom makes you more efficient.
 
Simply put, you will have to cram more work into the same 24 hours. It’s not going to happen due to any miracle beverage (though coffee helps!). Luckily, many new moms find their prioritization skills and time management abilities suddenly sharpen through sheer necessity. You will probably be able to do much more with less simply as a function of willpower and, well, practice.
 
5. Being a new mom makes you more patient.
 
It may be a cliche — but that’s because it’s true. Babies don’t come with instruction manuals and don’t follow rules that exist in a civilized, adult workplace. Getting used to chaos and surrendering some element of control means that your tolerance for others things that are out of your control (e.g. a client deal going sour, someone on your team quitting, a colleague not returning your call) may grow.
 
Being a new mom is such a wonderful — and fleeting — time. There is a great clarity can arise out of the chaos and stresses of this period, and it can be a wonderful opportunity to re-evaluate what is important to you and all of your career options. So embrace the feelings and try to harness them into a vision for your future. Go get ‘em!
 
A version of this article originally appeared on Mother.ly.
 

Fairygodboss

Fairygodboss is committed to improving the workplace and lives of women.
Join us by reviewing your employer!
 

 

Find Out

What are women saying about your company?

Click Here

Share

Share with Friends
Share Anonymously

Own It - 5 Ways to Use New Motherhood to Reimagine Your Career

Own It - 5 Ways to Use New Motherhood to Reimagine Your Career

Being a new mom can feel like it's only about challenges if you're trying to balance your new family with career. But if you look a little deeper, you jus...
Being a new mom can feel like it's only about challenges if you're trying to balance your new family with career. But if you look a little deeper, you just might be able to see that this moment in time comes with an opportunity....
 
Being a new mother can be overwhelming for so many reasons. First there are the physical changes: the shock of birth followed by life-altering fatigue. Then, of course, you have a precious new little human to take care of. On top of it all, many new moms also have a job — and career — to return to after maternity leave.
 
There is no doubt that for some women, becoming a mother completely changes their outlook and perspective on their career. Very real tradeoffs between time and money come into question and your priorities can literally change overnight.
 
While this much change in such a short time can be very difficult, motherhood also presents an opportunity to reassess your career. Having a baby creates a catalyst to think about your job in a whole new way.
 
Here are 5 ways that new motherhood can be harnessed to help you reimagine your career:
 
1. Being a new mom helps you better understand what makes you happy.
 
If you’ve been toiling away in a job that doesn’t excite you, it will be that much harder to return to it. While it’s never easy to leave your baby and go back to work, being able to return to an employer that is supportive, filled with great colleagues and growth opportunities feels infinitely better than going back to a job that you never enjoyed.Take advantage of this moment of clarity to craft a plan to make a change if you need to make one.
 
There are great jobs for new moms, and you may simply have to find an employer that is more family-friendly, or that offers more flexible hours, part-time or remote-working options.
 
2. Being a new mom puts other challenges in perspective.
 
Work can be hard, but now that you’ve been up all night dealing with a newborn, things like office politics and bureaucratic processes may seem, well, a little bit more manageable. As a new mom, you may find it is easier to let go of certain imperfect situations and scenarios at work as you realize that many (previously unimaginable) aspects of life are sometimes simply out of your control.
 
3. Being a new mom encourages you to live up to your values.
 
If your work has not brought you job satisfaction or meaning, you may now be more willing to take the risk of applying for a new job, making a career change, or even starting a new business if it’s more aligned with how you believe you should spend your time — which is an increasingly precious commodity.
 
Now that you have a new baby and family responsibilities on your hands, you may also become more conscious of your evolving role as a living, walking example to your child. Deciding how to spend your time may be a big part of how you decide to be a role model.
 
4. Being a new mom makes you more efficient.
 
Simply put, you will have to cram more work into the same 24 hours. It’s not going to happen due to any miracle beverage (though coffee helps!). Luckily, many new moms find their prioritization skills and time management abilities suddenly sharpen through sheer necessity. You will probably be able to do much more with less simply as a function of willpower and, well, practice.
 
5. Being a new mom makes you more patient.
 
It may be a cliche — but that’s because it’s true. Babies don’t come with instruction manuals and don’t follow rules that exist in a civilized, adult workplace. Getting used to chaos and surrendering some element of control means that your tolerance for others things that are out of your control (e.g. a client deal going sour, someone on your team quitting, a colleague not returning your call) may grow.
 
Being a new mom is such a wonderful — and fleeting — time. There is a great clarity can arise out of the chaos and stresses of this period, and it can be a wonderful opportunity to re-evaluate what is important to you and all of your career options. So embrace the feelings and try to harness them into a vision for your future. Go get ‘em!
 
A version of this article originally appeared on Mother.ly.
 

Fairygodboss

Fairygodboss is committed to improving the workplace and lives of women.
Join us by reviewing your employer!
 

 

thumbnail 1 summary