30 Books Every Woman Should Read Before Turning 30

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By Alex Wilson

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Turning 30 is a big milestone. You’ve survived your twenties, have a better sense of your personal goals, and have some solid work experience under your belt. But now you’re ready to hit other milestones, like further establishing your personal brand and finding various ways to lead a more fulfilling life. Make sure to check out these 30 books before your 30th birthday so you have the inspiration and knowledge you need to live the life you’ve always dreamt of (and if you want to read them after 30, that's fine, too!).

1. "Ask For It” by Linda Babcock and Sara Laschever

This book will be your go-to whenever you need to refresh your negotiation skills. Keep a hard copy of “Ask For It” on hand not just for you, but so you can loan it out to friends and coworkers whenever they need the advice.

2. "Little Women” by Louisa May Alcott  

A classic novel about women supporting other women? Sign us up! The way Jo challenges society’s expectations of her is an inspiration to women everywhere.

3. "Grit” by Angela Duckworth

What is grit, anyway? Duckworth writes that it is a special combination of passion and perseverance that anyone can use to drive success. Any effort you make towards your goal ultimately counts twice, and “Grit” will show you why.

4. "The Handmaid’s Tale” by Margaret Atwood

Yes, you can also watch the Emmy-nominated television adaptation on Hulu, but the book’s firsthand account of this dystopia hits close to home.  Margaret Atwood’s writing reminds us of the importance of female agency.

5. "How To Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie

This is a classic, but it’s a classic for a reason! This book helps you do exactly what it says it will, from convincing people that your way of thinking is correct to making sure your actions don’t cause any resentment.

6. "Outliers: The Story of Success” by Malcolm Gladwell

If you haven’t read this book yet, you’ve still no doubt heard the 10,000-hour rule: that it takes 10,000 hours of practicing something the “correct” way to become a world class expert.  Whether you agree with it or not, the questions this book raises will make you think about your own habits.

7. "Lean In” by Sheryl Sandberg  

Even though this book is just a few years old, it’s already a classic for women at work. It’s chock full of inspiring stories of women leaders and how you can “Lean In” to join their ranks.

8. "Girlboss” by Sophia Amoruso

For a totally different perspective on female empowerment, read Sophia Amoruso’s memoir and entrepreneurship guide hybrid. It’s a great read for anyone who is testing out the waters of the business world, and it’s also incredibly entertaining.

9. "Nice Girls Don’t Get The Corner Office” by Lois P. Frankel  

It’s sad, but true! This book covers all of the subconscious ways that women accidentally sabotage themselves within the workplace and strategies they can use to eliminate these mistakes.  Some of what this book addresses? Social media use, negotiating and multitasking.

10. "The Life Changing Magic Of Tidying Up” by Marie Kondo

Admit it — who doesn’t need to declutter their life every now and then? This step-by-step guide on how to declutter your home can be directly applied to your lifestyle, and it can help you determine your career goals.

11. "The Color Purple” by Alice Walker

Perhaps one of the most important books on this list; the emotional weight of the story will stick with you forever. The contrasting narratives of Celie and Nettie highlight how women are oppressed in a multitude of ways, but also how we can thrive together.

12. "You Are a Badass” by Jen Sincero

For when you’re too distracted to remind yourself of how great you are, this book is here to do it for you. ”You Are A Badass” will teach you how to choose your goals and then reach them so you can create a life you love.

13. "Thrive” By Arianna Huffington

When was the last time you saw a book from an entrepreneur about how sleep and self-care can lead you to greater success? Arianna Huffington’s book will convince you that there is more to a successful life than just having the corner office and that that fulfillment starts with you.

14. "See Jane Lead” by Lois P. Frankel

Another book by “Nice Girls” author Frankel, this one focuses on finding your natural leadership abilities and how to utilize them in whatever environment you choose.

15. "Own It” by Sallie Krawcheck

A Wall Street executive turned entrepreneur, Krawcheck’s book focuses on gaining the power to accomplish what you want at work, whether its pursuing a non-traditional career path or learning how to invest.

16. "We Should All Be Feminists” by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

This quick read is an essay adapted from Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s acclaimed TEDx talk. It provides an updated version of feminism for the 21st century and draws from her own experiences to explain why everyone (not just women) should be feminists.

17. "Freakonomics” by Steven D. Levitt and Stephen J. Dubner

Sure, you might not be an economist, but that doesn’t mean you should avoid this insightful book on how economics powers the world around us. By focusing on incentives and using real-world scenarios to explain the world, Levitt and Dubner will change the way you see everything.

18. "Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic” by Alison Bechdel

Though you might recognize the name from its Tony-winning musical adaptation, you should recognize the author from a film criticism technique she invented: the Bechdel test. Though that particular anecdote isn’t depicted in this coming of age story, it’s a beautiful memoir of a beautiful feminist that highlights the bittersweet nature of life.

19. "Year of Yes” by Shonda Rhimes

What happens when one of the world’s best storytellers says yes to everything for a year? A lot. Thankfully, we can learn from Rhimes’ experiences through this entertaining book.

20. "To Kill a Mockingbird” by Harper Lee

A classic novel about the importance of sticking to one’s convictions, no matter how society looks at you. Returning to “To Kill a Mockingbird” will inspire you to follow your heart time and time again.

21. "Jane Eyre” by Charlotte Brontë  

Yes, it’s a classic romance and suspense novel, but it also exemplifies how to persevere in times of great distress. In her own way, Jane Eyre is a survivor and her journey to independence will inspire you.

22. "This Is Water” by David Foster Wallace

David Foster Wallace’s famous commencement speech is perfect for an afternoon read. It asks (and answers) the question of how one can live a fulfilling life with compassion with Wallace’s trademark humor and practicality.

23. "The Diary of Anne Frank” by Anne Frank

This personal account of one of the most trying times in history is a devastating but eye-opening read. It’s worth revisiting once you’ve hit adulthood to remind yourself of the importance in understanding different perspectives.

24. "Never Eat Alone” by Keith Ferrazzi

 Personal connections are important to getting ahead in life, and the business lunch is an easy way to network and make lasting relationships. You’ll be surprised at how just reaching out to people (even if they say no) makes a distinct impression.

25. "Pride and Prejudice” by Jane Austen

This beloved novel is one of the most popular English novels ever written. Aside from providing incredible insight of men and women’s roles in society, “Pride and Prejudice” makes some important points about expectations, reality and the relationships that serve as the foundation of both.

26. "The Tipping Point” by Malcolm Gladwell

This book is a crucial reminder that even the littlest actions make a difference; it’s just a matter of having those actions lead up to the “tipping point,” the moment where they cross the threshold and become something bigger.

27. "Originals” by Adam M. Grant

Once you find yourself in a leadership position, it’s important stay true to yourself once you’re there. Grant writes about how leaders can balance the challenge of improving the world while also originating new and potentially risky ideas. There’s a way that it can be done, but you’ll need to reject conformity along the way.

28. "Milk and Honey” by Rupi Kaur

A must-read poetry collection, Rupi Kaur’s work is about healing and hope. When you’re struggling to move forward, turn to this book to help you self-reflect and to feel enlightened.

29. "Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret” by Judy Blume

This YA novel is a quintessential story about growing up and discovering who you are. While it will resonate with you when you’re 12 (a.k.a. Margaret’s age), the themes of self-discovery will continue to resonate during adulthood.

30. "Pivot” by Jenny Blake

At one point or another, every career requires a pivot. Staying agile is key to staying successful, and this book will show you the strategy of how to avoid professional plateaus with small steps and by capitalizing on your existing strengths.

 

 

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