Few women are more inspirational than the inimitable Oprah Winfrey: a poor girl who came from nothing rose from the trenches to become one of the most powerful influencers and icons of the 21st century. How could we not admire her?
Here are just a few things I have learned from Oprah’s boss career that everyone else can, too.
Even though she grew up poor, black and in abject poverty, Oprah didn’t let her circumstances cloud her belief that she could be anything she wanted. This lesson is especially personal for me. I grew up in a small rural farm community, but my dad insisted that his little girl could grow up to be anything she wanted to be. Oprah wanted to be more than that poor little girl – more, even, than one of the most acclaimed talk show hosts. She envisioned changing the trajectory of the world with her special brand of passion. Her once-unfathomable vision became a reality.
From her early days, Oprah found ways to share her success with those around her. Who among us didn’t want to be one of the lucky audience members for the “favorite things” show? Big or small, she has found meaningful and personal ways to impact our world for the better. As she so wisely states, “What I know for sure is that what you give comes back to you.” So, so true.
It would be hard to think of Oprah without Gayle. Their camping antics and mutual admiration of each other – as well as their clear joy at spending time together – should serve as a reminder of how important it is to hold close those who “knew us when.” Oprah and Gayle’s friendship has never wavered in their 40-plus year relationship. As Oprah so eloquently says, “Surround yourself only with people who are going to lift you higher.”
A part of me still mourns the loss of her show. Even as a working woman, I’d record every episode and watch each night on my treadmill. Like many fans, I was devastated when I heard she was walking away from her talk show. However, Oprah assured us that change was coming, and it would be good – perhaps even better than what we’d come to be so familiar with. I must say, she was right. I have truly enjoyed the Master Class series and Super Soul Sunday program on her OWN channel. She has fostered deep and meaningful conversations and lessons abound, and she has found new ways to connect with us. Every time I hit a road block, I remember that change needs to happen for something great to come into our lives.
Tiffany Couch is the CEO and founder of Acuity Forensics, a forensic accounting and fraud investigation firm that helps unravel complex financial crimes.