Toxic bosses aren't always explicitly demeaning, but the discomfort they spread in the office is palpable nonetheless. This is especially true when they're verbally abusive or inappropriate.
"There are things we all agree are inappropriate for a boss to say to an employee, from gossip to insults; yet, I feel that people in positions of power in the workplace make these statements all the time," FGB'er JasmineShirey asks the community board.
Recently, for example, her partner's HR manager told them personal information (including financial information) about coworkers.
"What is the worst thing a boss or superior has said to you?" she asks.
Here's how the community is responding.












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AnnaMarie Houlis is a feminist, a freelance journalist and an adventure aficionado with an affinity for impulsive solo travel. She spends her days writing about women’s empowerment from around the world. You can follow her work on her blog, HerReport.org, and follow her journeys on Instagram @her_report, Twitter @herreport and Facebook.
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