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It feels like a dating app
I just watched a LinkedIn Learning video on networking as I'm horrible at networking. I really don't know what to do and what not to do. It seems like with the pandemic all the rules are changing. Now I'm more overwhelmed than before.
I'm an introvert so being social isn't my glass of wine but I'm willing to take any and all advice. Right now I'm trying to be active on LinkedIn but commenting on posts, I have let me close friends and family know I'm looking, and even reached out to co-workers on LinkedIn but I hardly get a response. I'm trying to connect with HR professionals but rarely get a response. I'm not asking for anything but a connection and I have a feeling they ignore most because, they think I only want to connect to find a job even though that isn't the reason I'm giving.
What have you gals done that has helped or even hurt you?
This is definitely hard (I'm an introvert, too). So far it sounds like you're doing all the right things. I think what would help is if you switch your focus from thinking you are bothering other people or wanting something from them to thinking of what you can do for them. What resources can you share with them? How can you use your skills to help them? How can you connect your connections to most benefit both parties?
Also, go beyond commenting on other people's posts on LinkedIn by creating your own posts. Share your resources there, as well, like news articles or blog posts you've come across regarding HR. Get a little more active! And never shy away from sharing your accomplishments with other people. Share experiences from your career, like a problem you solved or a trend you noticed, in story form.
I think the mindset shift will make you feel better about the whole networking process, and I hope these other tips help you take your networking to the next level. Best of luck!
Thank you. That is very helpful.