I had my son sophomore year college- I didn't "try" to get pregnant with him, he was a happy surprise. So I don't know what it's like to "try" to get pregnant. I also had an ectopic pregnancy when I was 24 that left me with one Fallopian tube and last year I had a LEEP procedure. I never thought I would be adding to my family. Now I am 31 and we trying to have a baby. At first it was exciting to think about, scary but exciting. Now, It feels like I fail every month when I see those 2 lines on the test and not that plus sign. I have heard from friends about their experiences in trying to conceive and it never registered to me because I didn't think I would ever have another child. Now I worry if I can, my doctor says I am capable but each month that I am not pregnant feels like I am disappointing not only myself but my husband too.