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Sometimes - OK, a lot of times - I get overwhelmed and feel like I'm crazy to a) want to pivot; and b) believe that I can actually pull it off.
How do I initiate and maintain that forward momentum?
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Thank you for the heartfelt responses and very pragmatic advice - there are many common threads among what each of you wrote. Where I get caught up in doubt and confusion is the fact that what I want to do is a bit up-and-coming, so there are no clearly defined paths/sets of credentials to acquire/professional organizations at my fingertips. But maybe that's a good thing because it means I can't be shut out for lack of those proper credentials, and the lack of a defined path is just an invitation to blaze one.
I am taking all of your suggestions to heart - thank you so much for sharing your insight & wisdom!
I think a T chart would be useful to assess whether an idea is worth it.
Pro vs Con
And of the Cons, examine what you would need to do to tackle them so they aren’t negatively impacting you.
Then it won’t seem so crazy to pursue it and you will likely have more confidence moving forward with a plan.
Come up with a plan, maybe a backup plan and pivot, would be my recommendation. Sometimes the hardest part is to take that first step, but if you have been thinking about it for some time, it probably means you're ready. I'm not usually one to take big steps without overthinking every step of it, but recently, I made the decision that I am done spending too much time on fearing for the unknown and I pivoted. My plans have changed quite a bit from where I started and I'm still pivoting. I have taken the experience as a time to get out of my comfort zone and simply try things. Take the first step, and continue to make and adjust plans; believe that you have the power to figure it out.
I agree with Mikal! If you take bite-size steps toward your goal each day, it won't seem as difficult. I too, have been there before with making a career leap into tech. I read so many articles and met different people along the way who told me what to expect, how to "hack" breaking into tech, etc. Mind you, I did this entire pivot while being unemployed, abroad (before COVID hit) and temporarily disabled, but it is possible!!! I believe you can do it too. Map out your plan of attack whether that is 1) committing to networking in the industry you plan to pivot to 2) taking a course 3) journaling/visualizing your goals 4) gaining a mentor 5) active in digital communities like FGB, 6) Prioritizing self-care (drink water, exercise, rest, healthy eating, meditation) etc. These steps and more all count toward your larger goal. "By a yard it looks hard, but bit by bit, it's a sinch!" You've got this!!! Keep going, your breakthrough is around the corner -- I feel it. Good luck!
Did we just become best friends? ;) I completely understand that mindset of bouncing between " I can't do anything" to "I can do everything!" My current method of keeping momentum is to set daily goals that will help me reach my ultimate goal. What can I accomplish today that moves me in the right direction? Eating the elephant one bite at a time. Read one article about where you want to land when you pivot. Make one call to a person who can provide insight into the change you want to make. Take small steps that when added together are the catalyst for transformation. Good luck!
This is your soul talking to you.
Sometimes feeling overwhelmed is a sign that you are being pulled in a direction that is not aligned with who you truly are. You're being stretched in one direction when your heart is pulling you in another direction. That frazzled feeling is a result of that battle. It can be so draining.
The feeling of the possibility of failure is also connected to this struggle. Your struggle to stay safely where you are (even if it's not authentic for you) is creating doubt to thwart that need to pivot and spread your wings.
The way I have dealt with this is by Journaling, vision boards and visualizing that many wonderful benefits of living that pivot ;-)
I would consider making preparations to pivot. Reach a move, a new role and all the benefits with living your new life. Make it as real as possible. Draft a plan, form a to do list. Talk to people who are already where you want to be.
By doing these things you acclimate your mind and heart to where you're going. When I do this I build my confidence and ease any doubt that I can really do it.