I am mentally drained
I am a worker I have not had a job this long. I even started working from home which I have to say surprised me because I never thought I could work from home. At this present moment, I am unemployed and I have gone one so many interviews and I talked to so many temp agencies that say they have a job for me and there is nothing that I am just tired and at this point, I question my life and purpose. My frustration level is at an 8. All I hear is that I need to keep pushing but I don't have the strength and I don't know where else to go. I hate this feeling.
Nicole Mayo
My dream job in the Marketing
39
09/21/21 at 1:37AM UTC
I am really grateful for all the advice and encouragement. When I posted this post I was so tired. I have a job which I am grateful for.
Tammy Hager Admin Professional in corporate finance
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08/27/21 at 4:02PM UTC
I know exactly how you feel it is so hard to keep pushing when you have nothing to push with. And the same questions play over and over in your head "tell me a time when" "how do you prioritize", blah blah blah.
At one point in my job search I was so drained from interviewing that I had to give it a break I told my husband this week I'm not applying for anyting! By this time I had already sent out 60 plus resumes and had several interviews since March . Do you know I had three interviews by Wednesday of the week I said I wasn't going to apply for anything?
The best advice I can give you during a job search is to not burn yourself out by spending so much time every day looking for a job give yourself a mental mini vacation and then start back at it. Another tip that is very important is "Wait on the Lord"... my faith really grew during this timeframe as I was looking for a job and trying to keep positive.
I did secure a job that I will be starting on Monday I'm so excited. I wasn't their first choice but I was given a second chance so for that I'm grateful. Good luck in your job search!
Chin up buttercup!?
Jennifer WehrendProblem solver, critical thinker, hard worker
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08/28/21 at 3:14AM UTC
Tammy, congratulations on your new job. Hope you will be happy there.
Tammy Hager Admin Professional in corporate finance
758
08/28/21 at 7:24PM UTC
Thanks so much Jennifer!
Anonymous
08/20/21 at 4:10PM UTC
Things are getting a little better. Thank you all I again. I am looking for a job but I decided that I will not take a job out of despairing. I waited for the perfect job
Kristin PuhlVersatile Practice Manager;passion for mkt & dev
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08/18/21 at 7:34PM UTC
workfaith.org really helped me with my job search, resume/application, and confidence after it had been knocked down over a year of applying to jobs. They had free remote workshops with really great mentors and offer mock interviews.
Anonymous
08/04/21 at 1:13AM UTC
Hello, I said that I would give you an update, My frustration level is going down. Got a couple of more rejections, but I know that I will be employed soon. I just have to keep applying. I appreciate you all
Sara CousineauSexuality & Relationship Coach/ Doula
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08/23/21 at 6:56PM UTC
Are you making sure to take care of you and give yourself the rest and rejuvenation that will allow yourself to approach this with fresh energy and eyes?
Katny SneadSoftware Test Engineer
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07/25/21 at 9:36PM UTC
I am sorry to hear you are going through this. I am experiencing the same thing, maybe not as bad as I do have up days and down days. I also have been considering counseling or a coach, or both.
Anonymous
08/02/21 at 11:33AM UTC
I hate feeling this way but I really needed help to deal with my emotions. I would suggest it it helps
Jennifer WehrendProblem solver, critical thinker, hard worker
226
07/20/21 at 11:21PM UTC
Sending you my hugs. I've been there myself. Have you looked at jobs at local hospitals? I know our hospital is hurting for people too.
Anonymous
08/02/21 at 11:34AM UTC
I just been looking for anything at this point
Nicole MayoMy dream job in the Marketing
39
07/20/21 at 4:01PM UTC
Thank you all for your comments. I appreciate all your advice. So I made an appointment with a counselor to address my mental state. I have been thinking about reaching out to recruiters asking for feedback. I have been trying to find things to relax me. Something that I will be starting soon is taking some marketing courses that I can take for free. Just don't like feeling the way that I feel. But thank you all for your advice and I will update you soon
Anonymous
07/20/21 at 1:52PM UTC
I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this especially after the last year or so that we've had. However, it's great you want to get back to work. Have you asked these recruiters for feedback. Sadly whilst there are some recruiters out there, there are others who will lie just to get your CV etc, just in case a job comes in in your field. Talk to recruiters, find out why they're saying one thing not another. Get someone to look at your CV - does it need a refresh? In between searching see what free training you can do on LinkedIn to add to your CV/skills. You note too you're tired and losing strength on it all - have you taken a break? Maybe a day or two away from it - sit in the garden and read or something. Take a mental health day away from it to come back refreshed. Good luck, I really hope you find something soon x
Anonymous
08/02/21 at 10:04PM UTC
I actually write CVs and resumes. Please let me know if you'd like to connect and work on one together. A refresh could help you get out of a slump and refocus on work that you feel is meaningful.
Anonymous
08/04/21 at 1:22AM UTC
Thank you
Erin VegaProperty Management Virtual Bookkeeper
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07/19/21 at 10PM UTC
Sorry to hear you are going through this. I know I have certainly been right there with you as far as job searches go.
You are in a funk right now. To break out of the funk you need to break out and do something different. For me, it was contacting several charities to volunteer. I offered my skills and experience to several agencies. Not only was I able to provide my skills and experiences but I also learned new skills that I found out I really liked doing. I eventually ended up going back to school online to earn my degree and continue to volunteer.
You could also check out different events in your area for businesses and try to make a meeting to network. You never know you could be networking with the hiring decision-maker and they just happen to be looking for a person with your qualifications. Make sure you have a pitch ready on your qualifications.
Or have you checked with the unemployment department for any events that they may have i.e. job Fairs, Training, Mock Interviews?
Linked In profile, professional profile online (resume online), Craigslist,
Hope some of these ideas can be of assistance to you but please do not give up as we all have a purpose out there. I wish you Good Luck!!
