This is my first post, and I am looking for advice.
Anonymous
This is my first post, and I am looking for advice.
I am in my early 50s and I spent more than 20 years with the same software company. After years of failed attempts at getting a promotion (despite getting raving reviews from my clients and peers, male colleagues were always favored), I quit my job and joined a company in the same industry.
Six months into my new role, I realize that I didn't negotiate the salary I deserve. I came with a wealth of technical knowledge that cannot be found on the market (literally) and didn't realize during the hiring process how critical and strategic my knowledge would be for the future of my new company.
Last month, my company hired an ex-colleague who has a similar profile to mine, but doesn't have my knowledge. This ex-colleague is also 20 years my junior. He was proposed a better title than mine (2 levels above me) and a salary 50% higher than mine (this ex-colleague is a friend and shared it with me).
I am convinced that the hiring process was (unconsciously) gender biased. Better to invest in a young-ish man than in an 'old' woman (and by 'old' I mean as 'old' as the CEO who is seen as young. Ironic...).
I love this new job and for the first time in my career I have a manager (male, as usual) who trusts me completely and treats me like a responsible adult who knows what she is doing. So I really want to stay with this company. But since my ex-colleague was hired, I feel like I need to stand my ground and get what I deserve. Or move on to a new company.
I have an annual review coming up in a few weeks, and I would like to discuss my salary. Knowing that I cannot reveal that I know what they offered to my ex-collegue. Is it realistic to try re-negotiating my salary before my one-year anniversary? Any advice on how to approach this?


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