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"No one will say "no" for you. With a few very, very narrow exceptions, you have to be the one to create boundaries within the free market system. Be confident, don't be overly apologetic, and people will respect you for it. No one forgives poor work done because you didn't have time."
"Don't stress so much about making your hours--you inevitably will. Enjoy the down time!"