A genuine job referral should not have any strings attached. After all, are you trying to help the person seeking employment, or just looking out for yourself?
This scenario just happened to me in my own employment search. In addition, it may have ended a long-term friendship. I have known this person for over ten years. We worked together at the same company for eight-half years; I left the company when they relocated.
The job she referred me to was not even remotely similar to my background. However, “she felt” that it would be “ok” for a temporary assignment. So, what was the job? She described it as “cleaning up after a janitorial crew.” Now mind you, she works at a suburban middle school. Most of these children come from affluent families and are less than polite, and when it comes to cleanliness – do not hold your breath. And, no, I did not pursue this job.
In addition, she did not take into account the location. I rely on public transportation; and I need to be mindful of my safety, winter, and subzero weather.
Since then, she has not responded to my texts or email. So, I am wondering what was in it for her? What kind of referral fee was she going to receive? I know her well enough to know that if she can make money from something she will.
What would you do if this happened to you?
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