My male boss referred to me as "buddy" in a meeting.
My male boss, who's been under investigation and found guilty of stealing money from a non-profit but still gets to keep his job, referred to me as "buddy" in a one-on-one meeting. "Ok thanks, buddy" as I walked out. I am a grown woman. I have never been referred to as buddy, especially not by my employer. I call my elementary male students buddy sometimes. Now I am regretting not saying anything in response. I am so mentally checked out and exhausted from countless interviews to get away from this guy. Needless to say, by the grace of God I am resigning today. Should I call him "buddy" in my resignation letter? LOL
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Well, I think you already know the answer and aren't serious about putting that in the letter. But please feel free to indulge the fictitious snarky resignation letter fantasy in your mind being as creative and biting as you like! I had fun thinking about cutting my old boss to shreds in my letter; but, of course, I was professional. I never thanked him for anything in the letter but rather expressed appreciation for the opportunity to work on important issues (true) and to collaborate with great colleagues throughout the world (these folks now form my professional network). All very graciously expressed. I still smile at that letter and chuckle a bit, thinking well played.
Anonymous
I would have been amused. no need to get all bent out of shape though. you are leaving anyway
Please don't put that word in your resignation letter. Just don't.