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Hi, I’m just looking for advice as at my wits end with my female boss.
Back story, I currently been with organization for 10 years and always had good reviews and great working relationships. About 8 months we had a re-org and I was reporting into this new boss, who is known for being an awful people manager. Anyway, can’t change this, so tried my best to make the situation work. In the last 6 months she has been verbally aggressive, micro managers me, undermines me and always, on a Friday, sends out aggressive emails pointing out issues. This January she put me on a PIP and week 2 of a 3 month pip she moved the goal posts and sent me a scathing email and trying to bully me into resigning. she is a lot younger than me and I just feel I’m not a team fit for her. I just don’t know if I should go straight to HR now or her boss to raise issues of her abusive and demeaning behaviour. I’ve been working so many extended hours, she took all my resources away from me and just afraid this will go on for another 4 months. Not sure I trust HR but feel so stressed out, can’t sleep and I just don’t know the right steps to take now. Any help or direction would be appreciated. Thanks
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