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I’m over the process
I’ve worked for my organization for about two years now and while I enjoyed it at first, it has become a struggle to stay motivated since my promotion. I understand that there are many people looking for work and I am grateful to have a job, but wonder how beneficial is it to everyone for me to stay where I am not happy. At this point I have had to take time off just because I find myself clenching my jaw and grinding my teeth every time I’m working.
Trying to figure out the right steps for everyone.
Amy Pasquale
Expert on Leadership, Teams, and Culture Change
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11/08/20 at 8:13PM UTC
I can totally empathize! I was in a similar position to you this summer and I made the decision to quit my job. I am in the process of putting my happiness at the center of my life and knew I needed to take this step. Good for you for moving on!!
Alyssa N. Batchelor, M.S.I put the lit in politics
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11/08/20 at 5:49PM UTC
Sounds like burnout to me -- you spent all this time working towards a promotion and you got it, yay! But now you're unfulfilled. I've been there. You should def. find some time to take time off and give yourself a break. If you can, maybe go away for a few days, just to garner the feeling of reset. Then you'll know where and what you want to do.
Carmelita ErvinImplementation Consultant
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11/06/20 at 12:48AM UTC (Edited)
I’m sorry to hear that you are struggling. It is never a good situation when your job is making you sick. But unless you have a rich uncle hiding out somewhere who can support you, then you probably aren’t able to turn in your 2-week notice. Get a plan together.
Can you afford to take some time off to do some soul searching? If you leave your job do you have to find a field to explore? Do you want to try something new? There are many things to consider when you start thinking about quitting your job.
Only you can decide if quitting is best for you. You must be able to make a clear decision and then live with it. Just remember to weigh all factors and talk to a close friend or family member to help sort through the decision-making process.
I wish you success in your next endeavor.
Victoria RegoReiki Master, writer, customer service
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11/06/20 at 1:01AM UTC
Thank you, yes, I’ve taken time off only to come back and feel worse. The job market may not be ideal but staying where I’m getting sick isn’t healthy. After speaking with my supervisor we agreed it is within everyone’s best interest for me to leave.
Carmelita ErvinImplementation Consultant
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11/06/20 at 1:14AM UTC
I know that wasn't an easy decision. But now you can begin your next journey that will be fulfilling and filled with purpose. I wish you continued success. Good luck!
Krystin MorganRecruiting Leader & Résumé Writer in Seattle
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11/05/20 at 6:07PM UTC
There is nothing wrong with seeing what's out there! You can be grateful to have a job and ALSO be ready for something new that will not negatively affect your health.
Maree FrakesProgram Management Professional in NYC
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11/04/20 at 10:24PM UTC
I agree with Aly - if your job is affecting your health, something is definitely not right. Have you considered working with a life or career coach support you through this time? They may be able to help you pinpoint what exactly about this role is not working for you and what to look for in future roles.
Victoria RegoReiki Master, writer, customer service
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10/29/20 at 9:02PM UTC
Thank you for your responses, while I’m sure burnout is a part of this, it is definitely not a good fit. I have to agree it’s time to start looking.
Aly BrineHelping Corporate Hippies thrive on LinkedIn!
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10/29/20 at 8:59PM UTC
Hi there! Career Alignment Coach here. If you're physically feeling it in your body, unconsciously, and you're asking questions about how you're effecting other people then it sounds like it's time to start looking. Your own happiness is important. That feeling that you're meant for more is important. Don't ignore it. Yes, even in crazy times where you're just happy to have a job!
Cara HouserCoaching + Digital Courses for High Impact Women
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10/29/20 at 8:03PM UTC
Hi,
It's hard to tell from your note if you're struggling with this specific position/company, or if you're having trouble staying motivated/focused in general. I recently came across the book Burnout in a podcast with the authors on Brene Brown's unlocking us podcast. It's eye opening and very timely considering the additional stress we are all under these days. Best to you.
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