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Anonymous
06/18/20 at 3:36PM UTC
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Let go for second time in 8 months

Hey FGB community.... help me rally through my current situation. I was let go in October from a job I had moved my family to a new city for. Reason given - untrustworthy. The back story to this is I was the backfill for my boss and had 11 years of experience on her. I was then unemployed for 4 months. Was the finalist in 3 different positions, and then landed a job, much less pay for a small company. I jumped on the job, as I needed something to pass time and get my head back up. The job description and the actually duties were NOT the same... what was “sold“ to me was completely different. I was not challenged enough and not happy. But doing everything asked of me. But I started to search again. Well, today, I went into work, processed payroll, then was pulled into the bosses office and let go. Reason being “he is going to go a different direction.” I asked no questions. I did as asked, packed up my office and left. I told him the status of a few things I was working on. In the parking lot he said he was sorry and appreciated my professionalism. So here I am.... jobless again. More than anything- how do I figure out of I really am the problem?? I mean, I do not really think that I am, I think I am having a hard time figuring out the culture of companies I am working for. As you can not get a good feel in 2 or 3 small conversations in an interview process. I worked for 20 years at the employer I left to move away.... How do I push myself to keep moving forward??

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Jackie Ghedine
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06/24/20 at 12:08PM UTC
There are so many layers to job loss. First off, good for you for looking inside and creating awareness on what the problem might be within yourself. Most times, dissatisfaction inside manifests itself outwardly so while you thought you were chugging along, you probably were not representing yourself as you normally would had you loved and enjoyed your job. After a layoff, it's time to reflect on yourself. What do you want to do, what could you have done differently, how can you recognize the warning signs in interviews, what's next for me. Once you have some clarity, recognize that while no one wants to be let go, this job was not for you and now is an opportunity for you to find a job that actually aligns with your skill set. The best way to move forward is to just focus on taking small steps, one at a time. Know that you're here now, don't look back with regrets but look forward seeing how the world is open for you to explore. Take a listen to this podcast episode of Make Your Life Magnificent: How to Manage Your Mind After a Layoff. https://www.therestingmind.com/podcast/2020/5/12/episode-18-career-crossroads-managing-your-mind-after-a-layoff
Rachel Minnick
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06/18/20 at 6:54PM UTC (Edited)
I am so sorry. That just sucks - no two ways about it. First thing is to give yourself some time to just be. You are smart to look inward, but right now, you had the rug pulled out from under you and need to get your bearings. It sounds like the most recent job was not a good fit and this is an opportunity to not do it any more (the updside of the downside, if you will). It's Thursday. I'd avoid doing anything but self-care and the bare minimum tasks through the weekend. You deserve a moment to breathe and you'll probably have some epiphanies if you make space for them rather than immediately jumping into job searching or over-thinking it. Everyone has setbacks, sometimes a whole bunch, and it can seem like the world is out to get you. You will learn important things about yourself from this, but you might not know what those things are for a bit.
JENN O'TOOL
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06/18/20 at 5:12PM UTC
Hi - this does stink especially since you quit a good job and moved. It's a good opportunity for self reflection, but I can imagine it stings quite a bit right now - how can it not... I do career re-imagining coaching and might be able to help you with some things to do/think about before diving in again. I'd like to help - no obligation...it would be my gift to you if you're interested. Connect with me on LinkedIn if you want to get in touch: www.linkedin.com/in/jennotool For today, do some self-care...take care of you!
Kelli
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Helps senior-level women make career changes
06/18/20 at 4:17PM UTC
This is a tough one but the good news is you're open to digging in to understand the root of the problem. My guess...it's probably a little bit of both (not a fit for the role + something going on internally that's showing up externally). I'm sure you're feeling lost...if you need an outsiders prospective I'm happy to chat with you.

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