My husband thinks I’m a loser. I’m 40 & have just quit my job because it was an upper management job that, after 9 months, i could see had no longevity & no opportunity for growth. While I was proud of myself for recognizing that this wasn’t a good fit, he’s just informed me that I, ‘will never have money’ that I ‘live in a country where people are making money & I have none’. I do have some credit card debt & we have very little savings. Because my industry is not hiring for the position i want at the moment, my plan is to take a step back & enter a company at a lower position to grow with a company. I think it’s sane & strategic, he only see the immediate payout & not the long term goal. He wants to open a business with me but doesn’t want to sit down & discuss the business. When he gives me an idea, I tell him that I’d like to sit down & discuss a business plan for that business (what kind of business, funding needed, game plan, etc). He says that when I tell him to do this, I’m cutting him down. I feel like I’m losing my mind. My partner doesn’t support me. I feel like I live with a parent. I’ve supported him non-stop for almost a decade & lived with his shortcomings (he moved here from another country & won’t learn English). I handle all of the important things in the relationship on my own (bills, insurance, his paperwork, his emails), I maintain a nice household & when I work, I’m doing 70-80 hours/week because of the nature of my industry. It isn’t enough for him. I needed to say this somewhere because I haven’t got much of an outlet.