Your big little dreams--make them come true
I turn 31 in one month. November 11. And my year of being 30 has been one of the most exciting yet because I set on to make a few of my big little dreams true. Which ones? I got a helix piercing, a tattoo, quit my job, took a sabbatical, got another job (thinking of getting a new one though--that's a different post), bought the sexy, expensive leather jacket I've been wanting for a while, traveled to 10 cities I have never been to before, got a pink balayage, and started my yoga teacher training. Thinking back to all of these, they are all over the place but HOLY SH*T that's a lot of stuff I did FOR. MYSELF. BY. MYSELF. I asked no one for permission. I just asked me and I went on to do it.
I think it is important to set time aside and give ourselves permission to go after these big little dreams. Sometimes lots of planning is needed. Other times more planning is needed.
As an example, my pink hair is something that I have wanted since I am 14... I was sitting in the salon chair looking at myself with a huge smile... I finally gave that young teenager, that young girl what she wanted. And you know what? I feel so powerful after that.
You deserve all your dreams of all sizes to come true. Some times we ought to start with the little ones. Once they are put together, they are BIG.
What are YOUR big little dreams?
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