How do I deal with kids who don't want to be successful
I have 4 kids, 29,27, 20 and 17. 3 of them are striving to be successful adults, working hard, saving money, going to school. My oldest still lives at home, doesn't have a regular job to speak of, and doesn't really have any motivation to do anything productive.
How do you deal with this?? How do you motivate an adult child to want more?? I have told him once that he should learn how to change an adult diaper, because at this rate he will be changing his parents' diapers!! He's a sweet son, and super outgoing. I just don't know what to do!!!