My spouse has been really unhappy in their job. It's just a bad situation. They haven't been able to find another position for months, and now they have a job offer on the other side of the country. (I won't have much trouble finding another job in my field)
I don't hate the idea of moving per se, and our kids aren't in school yet, but all my friends and family are here, and we've invested tons of work into remodelling our home ourselves (so many weekends!). I don't want to give it up!
But she's so unhappy and deserves to have a fulfilling career. Is it selfish of me to mourn the loss of a house?