How do I develop empathy for a coworker who truly annoys me?

Question

I find myself avoiding one person as much as possible and I know this is just making the situation worse. How do I spark curiosity vs. anonymity?

Anonymous · Answer

i don’t think there is anything wrong w avoiding the person that annoys you at work. UNLESS you have to work with them. I think in that case, you can just be professional and not make extra chit chats

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe you could approach this as a challenge, and try to identify the areas where you both have common interests? In my mind, it’s worth it to build the relationship rather than allow it to be strained... invite them for a cup of coffee and tell them you would really like to know them better... they may be flattered, they may not, but even if they say no, you have put in the effort to try to remedy the situation. Take the high road.

Anonymous · Answer

is it possible they are just as annoyed by you? I am not saying you’re annoying, but maybe they are avoiding you as much as you are avoiding them?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see why you need to really get involved with someone who annoys you. Is there a reason you think that's necessary?

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