How do you deal with having to work with someone who got the job you wanted?
Four months ago I applied for a different role within the same company. I realized my current position wasn’t a route that aligns with my long-term aspirations and the open position was a perfect transition opportunity.
Although the interviews went well, their team decided to hire externally. Many colleagues recommended the new hire to meet with me for strategic insights and recommendations and while I love supporting new hires, I can’t help but shake that this would’ve been such a great role for me. Every time I’m sharing insights, I think of how knowledgeable and ambitious I would’ve been for this role and I’m constantly reminded by it. I know it’s selfish feeling but it’s hard to dodge the thought when I’m constantly reminded by it.
Ladies, I need some advice! How do you deal with having to work with someone who got the job you wanted?
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