Setting expectations for a direct report on her first day...
March 12,2019 at 2:31PM UTC
I will have a new employee reporting to me very soon, and I am wondering how to go about setting expectations on her first day. In the past, I think I have been almost too nice and friendly to my direct reports, which has gotten me in trouble because they view me more as a friend than as a manager. How can I avoid setting the tone this way at the outset without coming off as unapproachable or intimidating?
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