Salon attitude

OK... so working in the spa and salon environment is my one true love , I actually spent the last year trying something else because I started to question wether or not it was right for me as I don’t seem to fit it. I have worked in a few different salons and I always seem to clash with somebody, I end up getting uptight, defensive and snappy and spend my evenings feeling sad - for a long time I thought maybe I have a bad attitude but since having a year out I have realized I am just way too sensitive for the bitchy attitude so how can I stop people being bitchy about others from tearing me down. I give everything and I always end up covering for people who are lazy because I want every guest to feel like they have been able to let go of daily struggles - I always go the extra mile for the guests but it hurts my feelings when the other girls judge them and I end up getting judged myself because I stick up for them. I have a really strong bond with 80% of my customers and I never repeat anything that happens from the moment I shake their hand (we keep in touch even after years of me leaving a place) ... I’ve worked all over the world in this job and have really strong bonds with a lot of previous clients but I can’t seem to find a place where everyone is kind. I have just accepted a new job and I am already worrying that my personality may not fit... what can you guys recommend... love and light ❤️