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Theresa Galang
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Jack of many trades, almost a master of one
11/12/20 at 5:41PM UTC
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I miss working a real job

After quitting my last job in February, it's been difficult to find work. I got a great job offer right after I quit that job, but the offer was rescinded due to COVID-19. I was found illegible for unemployment benefits during this time. In order to have money to pay bills, I started working my food delivery gigs again back in late May. I've been doing that for money ever since. Lately, I find it hard to get out of the house and work. I guess it's because I'm just not passionate about delivering food and I hate how much I've had to spend on car repairs because it's taking a toll on my car. It pays well, but I miss having a stable paycheck. I still have one more year until I can get back in school and finish up with my Master's, so until then, I'd like to work as much as possible. The only thing motivating me to work these delivery gigs is having money for bills and expenses. That's about it. Like I said before, I'm not passionate about it. I wish I had a stable job again. I love the flexibility of food deliveries and I would love to have a job with that flexibility. Ideally, I'd want a work from home job right now. That way, I can still manage to get things done around the house. With my last job, my laundry would pile up so much and I would feel so disorganized around the house. I like being able to do my laundry more frequently. Another benefit is that I would be close to home in case my 74-year-old mom needs me. With my last job, I would have to take days off to help my mom. That's where the food delivery gigs are helpful as well. I really wish I could find a good job again. Either that or I wish that I could make money doing something I'm passionate about.

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Anonymous
11/16/20 at 2:49PM UTC (Edited)
Have you considered looking into remote contract work? This could be a great way to gain work experience in the field you are passionate about while maintaining the flexibility of not committing to a permanent long-term role. If you end up not enjoying whatever contract position you are in its temporary so you aren't "stuck" depending on the contracts length and it could provide more of a routine schedule/pay. There are of course downsides to this type of work as well such as benefits (big one). Might be worth looking into! Check out: https://weworkremotely.com/
Anonymous for a day
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11/14/20 at 5:22PM UTC
I would start applying for jobs now. Most of them are work from home and if you show you can excel working from home, you'll have a better chance of keeping that working arrangement when things get back to normal.
Ixzchel
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11/14/20 at 4:46PM UTC
You are brave to share your struggle. I can hear how challenging the current situation is for you. Feeling unmotivated can really pull you into a dark place. Why not take the moments when you can garner a bit of motivation to map out some of the jobs you'd like to find yourself in, in the next 3-6 months or even in then next year or so? I have found that once you start mapping out what you would like to be doing, it somehow starts to increase your motivation and you start working towards the things you want to achieve. I definitely recommend that you use some of your free time to do things you like to do. I find this helps you stay positive even when you are not necessarily utterly thrilled with the situation you are in, whether work or personal. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other. You are always moving forward even if slowly if you keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Brionna
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11/14/20 at 4:26PM UTC (Edited)
While helping my family out at home; I have been looking for a remote job to fill in my two-year gap. In the meantime; I am remaining my patient and faith during the pandemic by listening to career webinars to give me ideas of a new career field, listen to music and start journaling a little bit every other day.
Amanda Rice Hahn
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12/05/20 at 8:16PM UTC
Brionna, Is there any remote learning that you can do while you are home that would position you for your next opportunity when you are ready?
Pamela Patton
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11/14/20 at 2:53PM UTC
Why are you waiting to finish your Master’s? There’s probably money out there to help pay for it. Since you don’t have a full time job now, make finishing your degree your job.
Amanda Rice Hahn
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11/14/20 at 5:35PM UTC
I am also working on my masters. My program offered special tuition discounts to individuals who lost their job, furloughed, reduced hours etc. It is worth asking about.
Pamela Patton
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Senior-level creative copywriter.
11/14/20 at 5:46PM UTC
When I was downsized, I went full-speed ahead and finished my master's. Worked temp jobs that sometimes required me to just sit at a desk with little to do. I brought my laptop and did homework – with permission, of course.
Leigh Nightingale
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Enabling Creative Entrepreneurs to Thrive!
11/14/20 at 2:44PM UTC
Well done on taking a positive step by posting here. I hear you’re worried and possibly a little depressed- take some of the gift of time that you’ve been given to practice some mindfulness and gratitude. Your spirits will lift and you’ll feel confident and happy! Then take stock of what it is you love doing and find a way to do it remotely, online. That was my journey this year, and now I’m working my own freelance gig as a virtual assistant. It’s awesome and I love it. Stop wishing for it-go and get it!
Brionna
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11/14/20 at 6:01PM UTC
I had the idea of learning about virtual assistant as a remote job during the pandemic, but my current transportation case was a reason I move past it.
Anonymous
11/13/20 at 3:15PM UTC
Have you considered volunteering virtually? Many organizations are desperate for help. Most are flexible and this could add to your resume.
Brionna
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11/14/20 at 3:56PM UTC
Where can I find information about this?
Retired happy
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11/14/20 at 6:28PM UTC
Volunteer Match is good. Google non-profits in your area. Check United Way members.
Brionna
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11/15/20 at 8:50PM UTC
Are there companies looking for remotely volunteer jobs?
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Cara Houser
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11/12/20 at 5:54PM UTC
It sounds like you've made the most of this time by finding flexible work that supports your financial needs and allows time for your personal responsibilities. Though it is not terribly passion-inspiring for you, keep in mind that it doesn't necessarily have to be. Many people find their purpose and passion (and just plain fun engagement) outside their paid work. Have you considered using your spare time to explore an interest? Maybe a new one, or one that has been simmering deep inside you for a long time? Some examples people have tried during this pandemic are hiking, running, walking, writing, painting, other art forms, learning a language, gardening, learning an instrument, or to sing. There are many more esoteric activities out there too that could connect you to a like minded community. Remember that purpose doesn't land on you like a butterfly, you venture into it like a meadow. By trying new things until something sticks. All the best to you.
Leigh Nightingale
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Enabling Creative Entrepreneurs to Thrive!
11/14/20 at 2:39PM UTC
I love your last paragraph- Remember that purpose doesn't land on you like a butterfly, you venture into it like a meadow. So very true!

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