I have a dear friend who has become an official hoarder. I haven't been inside her house for a couple of years - she's always come over to my house. I happened to stop in for a quick hello, walked inside to get my dog a bowl of water and I was shocked to see how bad her hoarding situation has gotten. I'm so heartbroken! I don't know how to address this, and want so much to help her. Any ideas on how I can help my dear friend? She's divorced, has a grown son who lives in CA and is a brilliant attorney.