reading through everyone’s comments and toxic friends, I became more aware of a terrible relationship I didn’t even knew existed.
I have a friend who swings her moods way to much. She once complemented about how nice I am and then yelled at me saying I was useless. I told her how she said I was nice and she said it was sarcasm. She even told me to take a “ swan dive off a building.” I didn’t know what that meant and told one of my “close friends” about it and she said “ it means she wants you to die” and then ranted on about how her nails were and whether or not she should hook up with some sketchy guy. I replied with a “ I don’t know. Don’t you notice he is always asking for money?” Trying to look out for her, she shouted and said “ what do you know about having a boyfriend?! You don’t even have a real one b*tch.” Once she said that I left her. She kept saying where are you going?! Wait etc. At first I thought at least I have my best friend.. she was umm.. you know picking something outta her nostrils. We both laughed A then she ask why the long face. I told her and she said “ oh yeah there messed up man. Get ridda them” then I knew she was the right friend. So yeah that’s my story. I hope you people get those people who are toxic flying out your kitchen window. And the article/ story/ something to read helped me a lot and probably can help you pick out the rotten carrots in your fridge ( metaphor meaning that you can dump those toxic friends) and ya’ll are great friends probably in real life. <3
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Lynette Hall
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Motivated, innovator, builds teams and systems.
01/28/21 at 10:08PM UTC
Good for you - figuring this out now...take care of you!
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Kunga Choedon
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01/29/21 at 1:01AM UTC
thanks you too!
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Anonymous
01/28/21 at 11:21PM UTC
So glad you figured this out! What are you going to do next?
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Kunga Choedon
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01/29/21 at 1AM UTC
I told them i wasn't friends with both of them anymore and i know they were good deep down but right now, i just couldn't see it and said they wuld figure it out soon. :)
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Anonymous
01/29/21 at 12:58AM UTC
I am also one for thinking the best of everyone and inadvertently tolerating abuse. Kudos to you for ascertaining your friend's level of respect (low). For myself I now know to get my friend's opinion about a new relationship since my rose-colored glasses miss indicators they may see.
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