The manager and supervisor are best friends and I’m the assistant manager playing third wheel!
September 17,2022 at 12:59PM UTC
How do I navigate this??? It started off okay, the training was lacking and the team is very young. I’ve worked hard to be self sustaining due to their relationship and I’ve ended up being the disciplinarian out of the management team. due to the lack of enthusiasm by the team who really need
whipping into shape, I’ve been the person to initiate performance reviews and a few firings to improve the foundations of the team to grow from. However, after letting go a problematic employee who everyone loved. The other supervisor who was an advocate for the firing has now changed his tune and is shifting all the responsibility to me but not the manager who is his best friend. Work is now super uncomfortable for me.
is it worth pushing forward or should I find myself another position elsewhere???
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