Family treats me unequal and my mom defends my brothers bursts of rage, need to control me with everything and if I try to stand up for myself then it gets turned around on me with my mom bc I have to medicine for add and since I’ve had that diagnosis for 20 years Then she should educate herself and realize that abuse is abuse and since he has always had the shortest fuse and never respected anyone from family to friends and feels everyone in the whole world owes him something, entitled for no reason.

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Halley Marie

01/13/21 at 10:36PM UTC

Family treats me unequal and my mom defends my brothers bursts of rage, need to control me with everything and if I try to stand up for myself then it gets turned around on me with my mom bc I have to medicine for add and since I’ve had that diagnosis for 20 years Then she should educate herself and realize that abuse is abuse and since he has always had the shortest fuse and never respected anyone from family to friends and feels everyone in the whole world owes him something, entitled for no reason.

Anyway when I ask him to to something like something that I shouldn’t be scared of requesting he gets pissy and curses and slams doors, I don’t have the right to have a voice when it comes to being treated with respect and feel like I’m not equally being defended by my mom. She allows him to seek revenge on me and will flip or if I don’t things he d

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Anonymous

01/13/21 at 10:37PM UTC

Had to save so it doesn’t mke sense... will edit soon

User edited comment on 01/14/21 at 3:49AM UTC

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Anonymous

01/14/21 at 3:42AM UTC

Basically I’m stuck in a situation that I can get up of.... there’s an article that describes my mom and her son my brother and the way they gang up on me and controls everything that I’ve every tried to stand up for myfor. Idk what to do. I feel like I want to leave for I’m this hell on earth

User edited comment on 01/14/21 at 3:49AM UTC

Anonymous

01/13/21 at 11:05PM UTC

Hi Halley. This sounds like a tough situation; I'd like to celebrate your ability to recognize behavior as abusive and share your feelings about it. Do you want advice, or are you just looking to vent to people who get it?

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Anonymous

01/13/21 at 11:29PM UTC

Advice.

User edited comment on 01/14/21 at 3:49AM UTC

Anonymous

01/14/21 at 3:52AM UTC

Doesn’t matter.... I’m not sure if there’s anything anyone can do unless I’m saved and taken out of the horror but I know I can’t even pretend to believe anything that would happen

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Anonymous

01/14/21 at 3:05PM UTC

Hi Halley — I'm sorry you're dealing with this. There are resources for identifying abuse & getting through it from experts at https://www.thehotline.org/