Ok before I begin please save the “you are a scum bag” “you deserve this” “once a felon always a felon “ etc stuff because believe me there is nothing you can say that I haven’t already said to myself! 6 and years ago I stole some money. I was entrusted with keeping track of this money and we were near financial disaster so stupid me I took some. Well make a very long story short I went to jail for 4 months. Lost my job as a medical assistant working for a family that loved me for over 11 years. They even wanted me back after I got out but I couldn’t unless they paid me privately. Before this I was a highly respected hard working individual. After I got out I went on a job search. Landed a job in fast food and worked my way up to management. But it was physically killing me. I have severe back issues and need a knee replaced so being in this environment was exhausting and painful. I finally landed what I thought was the job to save me. Only it turned out to be a nightmare. After a few short weeks of training In a highly technical blueprint related field I was left to do it all by myself. It was a job for 2 people as a double check system. Well that became overwhelming and I made a few mistakes. So they shipped me off to shipping with some adaptations to my work station so I could sit mostly and not hurt myself. Then covid hit and I got laid off. Doesn’t look like I will be going back. I have had great success getting job interviews and job offers until they find out I am a felon then they say “I’m sorry but we can’t hire a felon “. My self esteem is in the toilet and it am suffering from anxiety. I have looked for companies that hire felons but most are manual labor. I know I did this to myself and I beat myself up every day about it. I just want to work and provide for my family. I am very lucky I have a great husband and daughter. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you
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I have 2 co-workers who just don't like me.
I honestly do NOT know why. They have been verbally abusive and completely shut me out of projects I need to participate in. The good of this is that it was caught on record and one very nasty bit of communication was recorded (during a meeting) HR did get involved (through my manager, not me) and they are now playing "nice" I am at a loss as to how to deal with this. I am not "nice" back but extremely professional in all my conduct and communication. They are now inviting me to the appropriate meetings and including me in most communications. How do I proceed? continue to be professional with zero trust or (gasp) trust them?
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How to improve communications with a coworker?
I have been with a company for 2 years but with recent layoffs, moved to a different role that is very different than my last. I’m retraining with a coworker who I have known since I’ve started and been in the role around 2 months now. Lately, they have been very short on their chat messages, making comments that to me feel dismissive and inconvenient to them, especially when asking a question to confirm I am understanding the new role. I addressed my concern with them directly to move on and have a better form of communication, however they responded and looped in our manager. My goal was just to have a quick discussion since things over email can become misinterpreted easily (especially tone.) Any advice on how to 1.) continue to advocate for myself 2.) make sure this does not become a long term issue with communications 3.) how can I better ask questions without being an inconvenience with learning this new role
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Are there people who you can go to for finding jobs and help you with your resume like recruiters who are legitimate and don't cost an arm?
I've been searching for work since May this year and I just feel overwhelmed with where I should be applying vs where I actually am applying. I've worked my best on my resume but I've got no one to double check it to ensure I did it right. I followed several different "how to write your resume" books and websites that I could but... Then most wanted money. I've tried the keywords and trying to tailor what I can actually do to fit the jobs I'm applying for... are resumes okay to be 3 pages long? Are bullets better than paragraphs? It's all so confusing and I've broken down to my husband over this so often. I don't know where to turn or who I could ask for help. My husband doesn't know about how to do a resume, I asked. Every denial just makes me feel like I did something wrong with my applications.
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Not sure where to ask this?
I have updated my resume-but I already uploaded it for the resume drop. How can I change it for that event? Thank you!
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How would you respond to your coworker if she said to you as you were sitting at the front desk behind her (waiting for 4pm to come so you can help cover the phones for her AGAIN "is there someplace else for you to go work?" I responded and said "am I distracting you or something?" She responded and said "I don't like anyone in my personal space.
There are plenty of places for you to go and work at." I said "oh ok sure. See you at 4pm." Honestly, I felt like leaving for the rest of the day and not coming back. I was simply waiting for 4pm to come since I was asked by our Director to cover the phones for her for 30 minutes while she has a meeting with her. I literally cover the phones for her lunchtime EVERYDAY and she seriously has an issue with me sitting behind her at the front desk that she shares with Security. I explained to her how I was planning on staying at the desk from 2pm until 4pm until it was time for me to cover the phones so that I won't have to keep going back and forth from one department to the next. She did not say anything at that time. I really don't like working with people like that who make an issue out of nothing. This is a temporary job that I was hoping to replace and find something better with by now. How would you respond to this?
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I am 30 years old, moved this year to Spain from Brazil.
I built a career in social impact projects but I am feeling so lost right now! I get no replies from jobs and I really don't know if I want to change my life completely and do something else entirely or just going through a very weird and depressed phase.
Has anyone felt like that? Like your purpose doesn't have a purpose anymore?
Has anyone changed their career while still in need of work for a living?