Not the marrying type

So this is more of a rant lol. After my last relationship I came to the realization that I don’t want to be married. I had 2 kids when I met my ex and my family and his pressured us to get married. A lot of women in my family believe it’s better to get that ring than keep your sanity ?. Anyway we did not get married..we just weren’t made for each other. My kids were old enough to understand and even after a long conversation with them I then realized I don’t want marriage. Of course my family is not happy with that, especially now with me having 4 kids. In my heart I just know I would never be able to love a man unconditionally. There are conditions. Your not going to make me look stupid or Put me in harms way. I’m not tolerating that. Ok my rant is over. Have a goodnight...oh and for those negative Nancy’s that feel like there 2 cents is necessary it’s ok to keep it moving!!