Hi,
First of all, I'm so sorry that happened to you. It happened to me, too, many years ago. The company--who found ME, by the way, gave me work--so much work that I felt like a full-time employee--until, suddenly, without warning or explanation...crickets.This happened, like your situation, about ten years after I'd started. My boss, whom I'd established a close work friendship with, suddenly stopped returning my calls. I kept reaching out and got nothing. I finally started calling her boss and then HIS boss. I just wanted an explanation--or a simple "am I or aren't I?" I'd worked for them at all hours of the day and night, once while sick in bed (I can still feel the warmth of the PC seeping through the layers of bedcovers over my lap between trips to the bathroom during a severe bout of the flu.)
After two more weeks of silence, I got really angry and ripped off a letter to the CEO, lambasting him for running a company where principals were allowed to treat freelancers and probably other "contractors" like shit. I told him that if he every needed my help again, he would not get it, because of the unprofessional and, yes, rude, way in which his company "ghost fired" good workers like that. I immediately got a call from the jerk who originated the "ignore-her-and-she'll-go-away" strategy. He apologized profusely and, a couple of years later, when the company needed me again, I was able to help them out.
I think the answer is to just let a company (or an individual) have it, and make it clear you are accustomed to being treated a certain way (professionally and respectfully), or you won't do business with them in the future.
So... to answer your question, I think it's been the practice by certain companies for a while now. But that doesn't mean it's right. In hindsight, I wouldn't have accepted more work from them. I found out later they treated their employees abysmally, with unfair, indiscriminate firings of loyal workers--without notice, of course. My other takeaway? Don't get so comfy with one client that you fail to ALWAYS have other, equally wealthy customers who need your expertise, ready to rock 'n' roll NOW. Don't become a 1099 "employee."
I hope this was helpful!
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