Just want to share what it's going on in my mind today.
November 19,2021 at 3:37AM UTC
I'm leaving my job on 3rd December.
I wrote 1 months notice to my lady boss. She never read it. But I met her face to face telling her that I'm quitting the job. These few weeks she's making things hard for me, that I have to travel from office to her house to do some work, and I can't claim anything from the company for transportation expenses. She's really not happy about it. She started to called out her friends to counselling me and to persuade me so that I don't quit my job. But the only excuse I make is "I got job offer". The same answer I shared to other staff and her friends. I can't let them know what I really feels, because at the end of the day, people will side with her and I will have bad record. The sad part is, I'm working with her that are not Government company, its just her private company. There is no HR Department as well. Fully operate by family members. After I talked to her, I kept silent afterward, and I stand firm and patience. So she has nothing to fight with me. So now, she also keep quiet about it. But she asked my manager to inform me that I should come back to work for her during holiday, which is I am not agree with that.
My secret is to slowly pulled myself away from her. I'm sure she could find someone that really can entertain/feed her narcissistic supply.
To those out there wanting to quit your job because your boss is Narcissistic or micromanage you in your job etc.
Just be cool, be professional, and don't talk behind their back/complain to other staff. Just silently do your work until the day you leave the company. Be silent about it. Because you want to keep your record clean.
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