Almost 30 and at a standstill - an update to my last post
(My last post: https://fairygodboss.com/community-discussion/Hk9lSxcXU/almost-30-and-at-a)
I quit the job where I was unhappy. The environment was toxic. I was working around two types of people: those whose main goal was to dampen your spirits and those who spent their 8-hour workday bragging about their latest sexual trysts.
I started delivering food again to make ends meet and I went for a job interview a few days after my last day at that hellhole I used to work at.
A few days after my interview, I got an offer for the job. I was so excited! This would be the highest paying position I ever had! I was scheduled to start work on my birthday of all days. Things were really looking up.
Today, I received an email saying the offer of employment has been rescinded due to the coronavirus. In the end, the composer of the email said, “We wish good health and safety for you and your family.” Well, I may be physically healthy, but I don’t know how my family will survive if I am unemployed.
I feel like whenever something good happens in my life, something happens to take that away. I really hate this.
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Not sure where to ask this?
I have updated my resume-but I already uploaded it for the resume drop. How can I change it for that event? Thank you!
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I am 30 years old, moved this year to Spain from Brazil.
I built a career in social impact projects but I am feeling so lost right now! I get no replies from jobs and I really don't know if I want to change my life completely and do something else entirely or just going through a very weird and depressed phase.
Has anyone felt like that? Like your purpose doesn't have a purpose anymore?
Has anyone changed their career while still in need of work for a living?
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It has been 3 months that I have been in the job market.
I have a masters in Industrial Psychology and a second postgraduate degree in Project Management with Corporate Communication. I am looking to start my career in Human Resources and Organizational Development. I have been tailoring my resume based on the job requirements, writing a cover letter accordingly and highlighting skills and experiences relevant to the position. The response rate is nil, and the rejection rate is stagnant.
I am unsure what more I can do at least get an interview. What can I add to my approach to get a positive response?
I appreciate any guidance I can get. Thank you.
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I applied to my sort-of dream job three weeks ago.
I haven't heard anything and noticed the job is still posted. Should I apply a second time?
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