my partner and I are downsizing (we live in NYC which is so expensive, and we need to be spending less money on our home). I have a lot of stuff that I want to keep, ideally, but I just won't have the space for it in my new place. has anyone else had this experience? do you put stuff in storage? try to donate it? I know I will have to get rid of SOME of my stuff, but it's kind of heartbreaking.