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Cherece

10/05/20 at 8:22AM UTC

Career

Thank You!

Today I stumbled across this page, and it has literally changed my life after I read the post about being in a toxic work environment. I am getting retrenched and the end of the month, but was offered a job at a sister company. Stuck with what felt like a crossroad on a busy intersection, I honestly did not know what to do! I have been hospitalised previously because of a mental breakdown with just the plain fear of us being taken over by that company. So here I was, I need the money, I cannot afford to be without work because I run a rescue centre. But just the feel of dread thinking about taking the job WITH a salary cut was just horrific. The abuse from the sister company has already started - even before I have left my current job. I am getting told off and warned for certain things that I am posting on my private Facebook page - every aspect of my life is being censored and I am being spied on. I suffer from Bipolar disorder, and i need structure in my life, so I have been working for this company since 2007 because I am too scared of change. Today I took a massive leap - and I am praying that I land on my feet. BUT I know that I would do so much better mentally. Thank you for what you do, and helping people like me.

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Keisha Jones

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10/04/20 at 8:16PM UTC

Hi Cherece, First off, I applaud you in being able to disclose to others that you are bipolar. I've learned that this is VERY hard condition to live with. The individual with the condition may have a hard time managing this condition. Also, the people that interact with them on a daily basis are often frustrated because of the mood swings. Have you thought about looking into jobs that offer services to people in need such Thrift Stores, Homeless Shelters, Animal Shelters or maybe a job that will keep you engaged throughout the day?

Barbara

Life Is Too Short Not to Love What You Do

10/04/20 at 4:33PM UTC

Nothing is ever worth your mental health, especially when you have suffered. Stay strong!

Heather J Myers, PhD

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Leads Traitify’s personality assessment team.

10/03/20 at 10:26PM UTC

Congratulations to you, a healthier workplace will be so much better.

Anonymous

10/03/20 at 9:13PM UTC

Right with you in leaving/avoiding a toxic workplace. I was recently diagnosed on the Spectrum and have been with the company for over 20 years (I was first (mis)diagnosed as Bipolar when I had worked there 10 years). I'm having a heard time leaving, but am getting there. Kudos to you for being assertive and on your way to a healthier workplace!!

Denise Miley

Reports Analyst NW Indiana

10/03/20 at 7:33PM UTC

Cherese, change is never easy. I stayed with the same company for years because I was afraid of change, I suffered from debilitating anxiety. I have learned to manage it and have actually overcome the debilitating part. However, with Covid-19 and all of the unknowns in the world, I feel it creeping back up. Anyway, I left that company to go to college. I am not making a ton of money doing what I do, but I absolutely love the freedom I have to create and analyze reporting. I am glad I took the leap because it has changed my life for the better. The other plus side is the job is completely remote even prior to Covid. I certainly hope you find what you are looking for. I am new to this page myself. :)

Cherece

10/03/20 at 7:36PM UTC

That's great! I wish I could find a remote job. Hopefully I will find something.

Anonymous

10/03/20 at 7:31PM UTC

Cherese! Thank you for your courage and transparency. You are taking a leap of faith and I am sending good thoughts your way. Follow your instincts and your internal voice. Protect these two compasses and trust them to show you when something doesn’t sit well or shows you a “red flag.” Pay attention and know what’s healthy and unhealthy for you. Toxic work environments are not worth the toll on psychological safety or on physical health. Wishing you success in whatever your path leads you to do!