I am consumed with thoughts of anger and resentment for a former employer who humiliated and hurt me by treating me really unfairly - I would go as far as to say cruelly.
I am trying to let it all go and focus on positive thoughts about both myself and my future. It seems harboring negative thoughts and revenge fantasies are a waste of energy and also get me nowhere. These negative thoughts certainly don't help me feel better. Does anyone have advice about letting terrible work experiences go? And moving on?
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Mislyn
I’m still to this day traumatized by my prior employer. He watched my every move. Would blatantly lie to my face talk behind my back and loved when I cried. I think it made him feel powerful. I left and went to another job but still to this day I strongly dislike the guy. He made my life miserable and I wanted nothing more then to destroy him and his company. You just have to be the bigger person and walk away. It’s not easy trust me but you will get over it.
Crystal Howell
Accept they were not worthy of you, and you focus on the job and make new friends. Don't keep bringing it up, if asked, It wasn't a good fit, no career growth. Your energy can be directed to something positive, shopping for new clothes for your new job!!! lol