Hi, I’ve been working at my company and worked hard and got a promotion to be a team leader taking care of 30 employees. There is a power struggle and bullying (making fun and speaking another language about me, and so on) from the other Team lead in a different department that I share an enclosed room with. I’ve brought this up to my manager and HR several times and they basically told me to deal with her because she’s been there longer and she’s an asset even if she’s been spoken to plenty of times about her bad behavior and attitude. She undermines my authority towards my team and takes jobs without notifying me. When I’ve tried speaking to her professionally about work, she blows me off and turns her body away. I don’t feel like my life will change unless I change it myself. I have anxiety and depression and take medications which helps but it’s harder and harder doing my job everyday. I am thinking of writing a resignation letter to turn in tomorrow. Please give me advice.
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How do you tactfully ask for more money?
Nobody said anything about the amount of my raise. I just saw the difference in my paycheck. Yes, it fell in their corporate standard 3-5% but I expected more.
Since August additional responsibilities have been added not directly related to the job I was hired to do. My role is sort of a combination of customer service and account manager, processing orders and customer communications, being their advocate.
The first area added was compliance. This is handling reporting of things like conflict minerals, REACH, RoHS, PFAS, NIST, etc. The person who handled this before was terminated so I had no training. To do this I've been taking the historical records and making the rest of the process up as each request comes along. There's nobody else that can do the whole thing.
I did get trained on the second area, creating and closing jobs, before the previous person retired. The Master Scheduler drops the details into the log and I create the job, printing all the associated paperwork for the floor. (He handles some job creating himself as well.) When the jobs are completed, the paperwork is returned to me. I verify everything has been filled out and chase people down to complete it if it hasn't.
There are other responsibilities that I now have as well but they don't really take up much time to complete. The compliance and job processing duties combined are probably a half a person amount of work. I rarely take a lunch break anymore (I eat but continue working). I wasn't expecting my salary to double or anything like that (a dream) but I still expected more.
How would you approach your manager in this situation?
PS I also have to ask where my back pay is since the raise was supposed to happen in December. They pushed the process to February so all salaried employees are done at the same time.
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Several websites for job searching will only let you view to a certain point without asking for you to review your previous and/or current employers.
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When the culture of a company systemically negatively impacts the mental health of the people who work there, that’s a toxic work environment.
Even if upper management itself isn’t malicious, if the culture they’ve created allows bullies/narcissists to make everyone around them miserable because upper management looks the other way, that’s a systemic issue.
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I was employed while job hunting.
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I was the chief CO of a Bank in wealth management.
this job made me sick. I resigned after 2 years of hard work, no recognition and mistreatment. Now, I am over 50 years old and it is really hard to find a new job. Nobody wants to hire employees over 50? 55? And the experience? I hear often that resigning / leaving shows no stability … and why this? Someone shall stay somewhere to suffer? Getting ill? Only youngsters with low salary… and the idea is to work until 67 in Switzerland… who will hire the elderly? What a fake working condition! I am desperate …
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i am recent graduate , looking for a job ..i have 9 months experience as SWE intern.
Struggling to find a job if any could refer me it would be really great.