My boss ASKED ME how my diabetes is going (my disability).
June 23,2022 at 6:33PM UTC
I told her that my kidneys are not now shutting down and that they are only working at 50%. She said, "I feel like I should have sympathy for you but I don't." Okay, she asked me, I didn't just start talking about it. So, aside from just being hateful, is it legal for her to ask me about my disability. It felt like she asked the question just so she could be hateful.
Let me add that I am a very thin and active diabetic (many diabetics are); I got the shallow end of the gene pool as both my parents are diabetics. I add this statement because someone put out that maybe she has a bias against over weight people.
The game of life is fun isn't it? : )
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It seems there's been a barrage of hateful and ill-informed comments on legitimate posts.
And how sad.
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Ever been unreasonably terminated and found out karma prevailed?
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FF to Oct 2019. Company bought and new people. I saw it coming.....I'd eventually be out.
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