A tough decision
I recently escaped a narcissistic boss. I had been with the company for 8 years and reported to this person for 5. Getting out was mentally and emotionally exhausting. Pandemic did not help. As I wrapped up that part of my life, I was depleted and exhausted.
The good news was that I ended up having two job offers and made the decision to pick the one that was similar to the role I had to leave. I’ve been in the role for a month and have a growing feeling that I would be happier in the job offer that I declined. The CFO at the company recently reached out to say that the offer is still on the table if I am interested.
A friend of mine recently said to me, “It’s all hard but you get to pick your hard.” I’m looking at the hard of staying in a job that won’t be a long term fit but will be fine for a couple of years or the hard of quitting this job and starting up the other one in hopes of a better long term fit. How would you approach this crossroads moment? What factors would you consider?
Thank you in advance for any advice and support.
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Opinion on secondment
I've been in my company for 9 months .
The perfect secondment opportunity came up .
My manager said to meet the secondment manager.
However, my meeting didn't go well.
I asked all the relevant questions but the secondment manager was very negative in her responses and I felt bad vibes.
The role was perfect and exactly what Ive been dreaming of .
But every question I'd ask she would be negative and say x person is tough x team will write bad reviews.
I didn't know if this was to check how i'd behave so I just twisted it positively and say how I'd adapt and help her with these challenges.
I rejected the opportunity but don't know if it's the right decision.
How do you determine if the secondment is right for you
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How long should you stay in a position or company? Do you think there is a standard time?
Curious to know others thoughts on this topic. I've been hearing 2-5 years. I think there are multiple factors that determines the time such as security, money, toxic space, they love the role or company, it's not your career goal, they're bored etc
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https://www.market-connections.net/blog/resume-red-flags
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