A tough decision
I recently escaped a narcissistic boss. I had been with the company for 8 years and reported to this person for 5. Getting out was mentally and emotionally exhausting. Pandemic did not help. As I wrapped up that part of my life, I was depleted and exhausted.
The good news was that I ended up having two job offers and made the decision to pick the one that was similar to the role I had to leave. I’ve been in the role for a month and have a growing feeling that I would be happier in the job offer that I declined. The CFO at the company recently reached out to say that the offer is still on the table if I am interested.
A friend of mine recently said to me, “It’s all hard but you get to pick your hard.” I’m looking at the hard of staying in a job that won’t be a long term fit but will be fine for a couple of years or the hard of quitting this job and starting up the other one in hopes of a better long term fit. How would you approach this crossroads moment? What factors would you consider?
Thank you in advance for any advice and support.
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Need some advice:
My current company is pushing for “globalization”. They’re expanding into different countries and as a result are trying to find ways to offload departments to other countries for cheaper labor.
I’ve been job hunting for a few months and recently had an interview for a position with a company for a payroll analyst position. I didn’t get that position but the recruiter asked if they could do an interview process for a different position with their company. This position is customer facing (which I’m not excited about) and it pays less but it’s basically been insinuated that the job is mine, I’m just going through the normal motions.
Ive done research on the company and position and while people love the company the position has terrible reviews. People have stated being severely overworked and underpaid being the common theme to all the reviews.
My current company has me scared of lay offs and the other position scares me because it sounds like I’ll be stepping from a pan into the fire.
Do I stick with the devil I know? Or go for the damn near guaranteed new position? The recruiter stated that the pay could jump in six months if I do well but that doesn’t really bring me any confidence.
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