So I started a new career in IT thanks to my Husband & now I am on a fast paced, high performing, no nonsense team. I have been struggling with the amount of work and the lack of direction- I get confusing messages from management. There is some bad mouthing of high performing team members by the leads on the team. I'm still somewhat new to this career and find that my confidence levels have taken a huge hit when my lead has yelled at me or told me to not do something that I know I can do & is part of my job (so I have to do it anyway). I have been somewhat open with my Manager but nothing is changing and I've been completely depressed. I promised myself that I would not stay in a job that stressed me out so much...but my Husband freaks out when I talk about quitting. He seems to take it personally and is very worried about finances, even though we both earn pretty well. I've been trying to study and get additional credentials outside work, but I feel terrible every day at this job and very apathetic with the time there. I'm at a loss and feel stuck...should I put in my notice and keep searching for something better and just face the stress at home?