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LaKisha Wheeler
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08/26/20 at 8:49PM UTC
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First time virtual interview

Hi everyone . I’m interviewing for the first time virtually and I wrote down some answers to some common behavioral questions, is it unprofessional to kind of read off those notes during the interview? I’m so nervous

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Claudia
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08/27/20 at 7:22AM UTC
If they're going to be picky about you having notes, or you are worried about how it makes you look, give the interviewer a heads-up. The last few who used notes during our interviews specifically mentioned it before we began. Something along the lines of: "hey, I have a few notes with me, if that's alright. I don't plan to read off them, but I find they help me keep my focus." And of course, as mentioned, keep the majority of your focus on the interviewers whenever possible, but it seems extreme that anyone would regard checking your notes as unprofessional. I will note that certain job interviews will not allow you to use or take notes (including a few in local govt), so it may be worthwhile to ask before each interview, just to be sure.
LaKisha Wheeler
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08/27/20 at 10:58AM UTC
Wow!!! Good idea!!! Thank you so much ☺️
Sharon Harriger
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Quality Control in Mortgage industry
08/26/20 at 3:54PM UTC
Actually, I think you should always come prepared for an interview whether it be virtual or in-person. Having notes is fine to refer to but keep your focus on the interviewer. You want to come across as natural as possible to make a good impression. I am a bit old school in that I always had a binder with notes including a list of questions going into an in-person interview. That being said, for a virtual interview I would still come prepared and show my authentic self. Just be you.
LaKisha Wheeler
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08/26/20 at 3:58PM UTC
I’m old school too and always had a binder with me. The main issue I really have to work on is rambling!! I have a BAD habit of doing that. So since finding out about the STAR method, that would keep me on track and making sure my answers are clear and concise. Thank you so much ☺️
Anonymous
08/26/20 at 3:09PM UTC
I’ve been a team member interviewing candidates but not a hiring manager. However, I’ve had hiring managers express concern about candidates who looked like they were reading notes during a virtual interview because they felt it might indicate the candidate was looking up answers to even the non-behavioral questions and just telling us what they found on the internet as opposed to their own experience.
LaKisha Wheeler
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Training and Development Professional
08/26/20 at 3:49PM UTC
Yes and that’s what I was afraid of. So I’m going to practice, practice, practice ??
Anonymous
08/26/20 at 5:15PM UTC
Yep, and the one thing I always tell myself to help calm my nerves during video interviews is, there will always be more. There will be other interviews if you don’t get this one, and you won’t have wasted your time because you got real life practice interviewing.
Jen
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Interdisciplinary Educator
08/26/20 at 2:57PM UTC
In addition to the notes you take, just take a quick peek behind you. Virtual interviewing allows for an unprecedented look into someone's home or personal space. Try to position the camera so there aren't too many distractions behind you. And I think it might be a good idea to tell the interviewer you are taking a few notes, so they don't make the assumption you are looking at your phone. Virtual interviewing is a whole new level. Good luck!
LaKisha Wheeler
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Training and Development Professional
08/26/20 at 3:48PM UTC
I know right!! I always get nervous before an in-person interview but this virtual interview with SIX people has me freakin out!! ?
Jen
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Interdisciplinary Educator
08/26/20 at 7:05PM UTC
One thing about a virtual interview: if you need a second, take a sip of water (sip, not gulp or slurp, and use a straw-less likely to spill that way). It'll give you a breath to resettle.
Amy Fortney, PMP
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08/26/20 at 1:59PM UTC
Good for you for doing the STAR response preparation! Have notes, but DO NOT read them. You need to have your answers practiced so that they sound authentic and natural. Write them down on cards and study them like flash cards until someone else can ask you the question and you can answer it effortlessly and naturally. You can do this! Good luck!
LaKisha Wheeler
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Training and Development Professional
08/26/20 at 3:47PM UTC
YES!!! I thought about purchasing some index cards and practicing that way!! Thank you so much for the advice!! You Rock!!
Dana Melvin, SHRM-CP
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08/26/20 at 1:19PM UTC (Edited)
I think for any interview, either virtual or in person, that it is always appropriate to have notes available to refer to during your interview. I would recommend using your notes as conversation starters or reminders for yourself, though, and try not to read them verbatim. I always will write down questions to ask ahead of time, as well. As someone who has conducted several interviews, it shows that the candidate cared enough to prepare ahead of time and is organized.
LaKisha Wheeler
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Training and Development Professional
08/26/20 at 1:06PM UTC
Thank you so much for your professional feedback. I’ll definitely practice and make sure that I read them verbatim.
Dana Melvin, SHRM-CP
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HR pro with a passion for helping others.
08/26/20 at 1:20PM UTC
I just re-read my comment and realized I had a typo! I meant to say NOT read them verbatim, but use them as prompts so you don't sound too rehearsed. Sorry about that!
LaKisha Wheeler
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Training and Development Professional
08/26/20 at 1:22PM UTC
I understood what you meant. In my mind I was thinking exactly what you meant to say ??

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