I keep running into situations where men keep creating awkward tension when alone with me
And at times displaying inappropriate behavior. For example, one co-worker who is around my age keeps telling me about his affairs with women in the office. He even tried to hit on me but I put a stop to his advances before he went any further.
Reporting him seems like the obvious thing to do and is the policy at most companies but most guys who cross the professional boundaries usually develop some type of friendship or a friendly behavior which makes me hesitant about reporting the behavior because it will result in him being terminated from his employment. I don't want to be responsible for him losing his job because he has a family even though he has done everything to deserve it. I don't think he deserves that type of ramification but I want him to stop the behavior.