Do you know your personal "burn rate"?

I have my Masters in Real Estate development and have been working in real estate for over 10 years, most recently as a real estate analyst. However, I have either been laid off from every job I loved, or looked over for any form of accolade, promotion, or (for the places I've temp'ed for) a permanent position. The only jobs I ever get called for now are call centers, and customer service. Mostly positions that you only need a high school diploma for. With all the education bills and living expenses, I need about 3x more than what they want to pay me. While at my last position, my husband and I decided to start a family. He just got a great promotion and I was at my highest pay job. We thought we were pretty settled. We became pregnant, but I got very sick. I had to spend a little over a month in the hospital, had a couple seizures, couldn't walk or stand on my own. It was really bad. Doctors recommended I take another couple months off to regain my strength. After I was well enough to sit at a computer for a few hours, I attempted to come back to work. The day after I started, the company had a huge layoff, and I was apart of that first round. Now, don't get me wrong, I completely understand why I was chosen and I bear no ill will to the company or the people I worked with. I just took this as a sign to continue to get better, and focus on my little one. I did attempt to get other jobs, but once I told them I was pregnant, demeanors changed. I was told to, once again, focus on the baby and try again after she was born. I get that they hare hiring because they need someone right now, not someone who will need to be out for weeks at a time. My little star was born in October 2022 and she is doing great. I have stayed home with her for a year and Im trying to get back into the field but, Im only getting hits for jobs that are paying half of what I was making. The thing is, I'm willing to take a lower pay if I can get my foot in the door, but I'm not even getting hits in my field. The reasons I'm getting is that I don't have enough experience, or there was someone who is more qualified. ( Which seems to be the story of my life). I am using AI to tailor my resume to every job I apply for, so I don't think thats the problem. Im starting to think maybe I'm in the wrong field, but I can't afford any major education right now. Maybe the universe is telling me to pivot directions, but to where? Im running out of my savings, and bills still need to be paid. I'm desperate for help or advice. I feel so discouraged, and I know I need help. I just don't know what to ask for. How do I get out of this decade long rut?

My previous company is supposed to pay me 12 weeks of severance and even though it's been over 13 weeks that I have been laid off there are still 3 remaining payment cycles due to the processing by payroll, x number of days after executing the separation agreement etc. In the contract it states that if I obtain new work by the same corporate parent, than my severance payments will cease. I have been offered a freelance position by a sister company where I used to work to be paid hourly for hours worked. If the contract is dated now but payment wouldn't begin until later this month or even next month, would my severance payments be in jeopardy? Don't want to lose my money!

There was a thread yesterday that exploded into a fireball of hate, it was about a woman who's 29 weeks pregnant, and not sure she'll return after maternity leave. I'm glad to see that many comments were deleted by admins, but my GAWD, the hate and snark and foul language that was running rampant is HURTING our community. Please, everyone, think TWICE before you click "post" on these replies.

My expertise is in program development and execution, health coaching, strategic planning, community building, and partnership development. Currently, I serve as the Co-Founder and Senior Director of Community Engagement at We Are Here, an AI-driven platform ensuring equitable access to resources for those impacted by cancer. I am looking to remain in the health and wellness space. I get particularly excited about missions disrupting our current healthcare landscape and organizations committed to health equity. If anyone has organizations and/or individuals in mind that are hiring or would be beneficial for me to speak with, can you let me know? Thank you so much! Shea

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I just got an email for an interview for an leadership/administrative role at the VA! My skills/experience seem like a match, but I'm a bit concerned about culture. My impression (based on little to nothing) is that the culture would be very structured, hierarchical, and formal. Has anyone made this transition? Any experiences to share? Questions specific to the VA I should ask? (I'm also reaching out to my local network to see if I can find folks to talk to.)