My husband and I verbally made the decision that we were going to move from a small town in Iowa to Washington D.C. Although I have a job, he didn’t and D.C. has so much more opportunity for him to find a job. We both love the city and want to move to a place where more opportunities for ourselves and kids would exist. I have the luxury of being a contractor so I can kind of move wherever there is Internet. Recently, my husband was offered a permanent job. He hasn’t taken the role but I can tell he wants to take it. He is afraid of change and I’m afraid of staying. I’m so bored here and cannot take this much longer. Ladies, advice. Please?