Once you break the cycle of negative feedback in your mind, you can create a positive environment in your surroundings.
Let the good things happen.
I am bothering a recruiter who has ghosted me so many times I cannot remember all of them. Maybe one of these times something will work out.
We were supposed to speak tomorrow at 10am, now it is 1030. We shall see!…
I saw someone post a Google document for all the different types of positions!
It made me think to leave a doc that I am in, too, which is all remote positions that are updated every month!
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I've been searching for a new job for the past two years. I am a senior-level program manager with more than 25 years of experience. I've posted my resume on LinkedIn, Dice, Indeed, Monster, Careerbuilder, Glassdoor, you name it. In the two year span, I've had about four…
I had an issue come up recently where a consultant, and former colleague of our CEO, made an inappropriate and insulting comment to me on a call. I offered to share a study to help his brand and his response was "See , you do have some helpful knowledge in that brain of yours." I felt it…
I had a phone interview for an HVAC company not too far from where I live last week on Tuesday for an Installation Admin Specialist. I came across their job posting on Indeed and followed the directions on how to apply. Basically I emailed them that I was interested and attached my email to…
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ppines
I have been a contractor for 26 years and have found that many recruiters are very excited to chat about an opportunity but many are not that good at keeping in touch once they have submitted you - unless you land an interview. I normally send a follow-up email 1 week after submission and if I don’t hear back, I send a second follow-up. Then I move on. Why? Because I know I am not in the running and no longer a priority. You can’t make them respond and there’s no point in placing all your eggs in one basket.
What happened with the interview with the agency lady and told you that you have C-Suite and Senior Executive Administrative Assistant experience? Is she putting you forward for a role? Are you also looking at company websites and applying directly? Are you approaching other recruiters?
In my experience, different recruiters will give you different points of view. For example, I had a recruiter tell me that certain roles on my resume would have only paid a junior rate - when it paid a senior rate… he literally wrote a bunch of red notes all over my resume and was very condescending, so I no longer deal with that company…….not sure if it’s because he didn’t have expertise with my background or whether it was the way I presented it. Yet another recruiter was amazed with my expertise and background - same resume! So don’t take their commentary too seriously. I would suggest you get a professional resume writer to redo your resume, it could make all the difference.
Unfortunately, most firms today prefer temp/contract work because they can pay less and get their pound of flesh. Don’t expect a pat on the back for going above and beyond, instead use these opportunities to learn as much as you can and add Key Achievements to your resume (particularly mention the 5 departments and the breadth of work involved) - so you can show what you are capable of and possibly land your dream role in the near future.
The deparmental managers you work for may not have the authority to land you a full time permanent role in their department or within the company - or perhaps this particular role is slated as a temp role only. No point wasting your time pushing your need for a permanent role in one department. If it were available and you fit the bill then they may consider the temp to perm option. But if you show any negative attitude then you will shoot yourself in the foot.
Remember, most businesses are only interested in what you can do for them - they are not concerned with your need for stability/leave/hybrid, etc. Normally, the temp rate you are paid INCLUDES sick leave and annual leave payment - it’s not accruable. Temporary to perm is pretty much the norm these days, but it’s also a good opportunity for you to test the waters. You may find that you don’t want to stay at a particular company. However, in order to build up your experience, you may need to.
Anonymous
Helpful comments, thanks. Particularly the one about recruiters not getting back to applicants after forwarding a resumé and not being selected.
Jackie Ruka
Break the cycle. Get in on LinkedIn, it’s chock full of jobs.
Focus on exactly what you want and not react to the current situation you are in.
Change out your energy .
C suite is tough to break into unless you are already in the organization.
Look for openings with companies who have the culture you want , get your foot in the door then move into that dream position….
Anonymous
These strategies may work for some, but they're not helpful for everyone. LinkedIn has been nothing but spam and fake job offers. In addition to this point, social media is not for everyone. Realistically, changing one's energy isn't enough to get them gainful employment. These days, you have either know someone who can get you in the door or be a cookie cutter employee of what a company is looking for (ie. walk onto the job, sit down, and do it without any training whatsoever).
Jackie Ruka
Unless you are on LinkedIn regularly, using key words and connecting regularly , the noise level of your experience goes way up. Sending out resumes is not enough. You have to network both online and offline. Be seen. many don't recognize that Linkedin has more opportunity than not.
Anonymous
Yes, THIS. Recruiters aren't the be all and end all, C-suite is definitely tough to get into, and her stated experience doesn't reflect C-suite.
And I wholeheartedly agree with "change your energy". The hostile negativity I see in this post (I haven't seen any previous, as others seem to have) is probably showing up in this person's work and interactions with any colleagues or recruiters as well.
Anonymous
Don't make assumptions about people's work and or interactions with colleagues or recruiters. They don't even follow through on their word half the time. I've received emails from recruiters with incorrect dates and times on them, as well as grammatically incorrect spelling. No change of energy is going to fix that.
Anonymous
Where is the hostile negativity? If you look hard enough for anything, you surely will find it.