When you visit a friend, what do you end up paying for?
I generally bring a bottle of wine and pay for the first meal we have together to thank them for having me, but, I've had friends where it seems like they want me to pay for everything (our bar tab, groceries if we shop together, etc). I'm OK with that for maybe a longgggg visit, but for a short trip (like a weekend), what do you think?? Also, when I have friends visit I tend to buy THEIR meal and cook for them so I really don't know what's normal here. Thoughts??