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All side hustles are bullsh$t to make you poorer
Ok, against my better judgment I paid to use the flex jobs search site, I regret it deeply. I am in a dire situation and really need to make an income this month. I'm exhausted sending online applications, trying to network and does anybody actually read cover letters? Every employer I've ever had told me they were not going to read them and hired me based upon my experience which currently sucks. I"m tired of all these side hustle ideas being regurgitated in every fortune 500 or penny hoarder articles. Does anyone else feel like being unemployed/underemployed just makes you a huge target for more people to kick you down harder than you already are?
Anonymous
02/29/20 at 2:41AM UTC
Thank you so much for posting!!! made my sad Friday night. Its soo nice to know I'm not alone, I'm amazed at how clueless people act when you explain you have no transportation and live in a small town two hours away from all these resources they keep telling me I need to try. I'm sure your laughing as hard as I am at some of the responses I've gotten on this thread. Its extremely hard to find anything, I'm literally fighting off teenagers for any type of job and it makes me sick (i'm almost 40 with a bachelors degree). I only got $300 for what was left of my car, it hurts.
Anonymous
02/28/20 at 7:24AM UTC
I am in a very similar situation. The closest city to me is Boston at 2 hours away and I have to pay considerable tolls to get there. There's no food delivery in this area so I tried going there to do it and ended up losing money (gas, pay to park, etc). Many of the recommendations for side hustles require time to build up. So I'm curious of other examples of what can be done immediately for money. (I actually went to sell my car and I owe more than it's worth by about$2500)
Ladyboss808692
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02/27/20 at 9:10AM UTC
Yes the remote positions is very easy to start. You can be your own business owner or you can work under someone with an EIN . If I was you I recommend you go to https://www.arise.com/ and you will be starting as soon as a month at the least. Just right click on it and give it a try. It beats commuting if you have kids or someone else to take care of. Best of luck to you and if you need me I'll help because this help me get out of a lot of ruts and I am still working this position now.
EMILY KIKUE FRANKEmily is the founder of Career Catalyst
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02/26/20 at 7:29PM UTC (Edited)
Sorry to hear you're struggling. I suspect, if you're not getting called back for interviews, that you're getting filtered out by applicant tracking systems when you apply. Try https://www.jobscan.co/ and workforce centers in your area. Some workforce centers offer remote services, as well as in-person.
Anonymous
02/26/20 at 7:24PM UTC
Sorry, I missed that information. Is there someone you could stay with in a more populated area with more opportunities without needing transportation until you can get back on your feet? Are there any social service agencies who may be able to help? I'm sure you've thought of and/or pursued these avenues. Wish I could be more help.
Anonymous
02/26/20 at 8:42PM UTC
Thanks I just appreciate people listening, and also hearing other frustrations, its just nice to know I"m not alone.
KANDACE BURKE-THOMPSONPatient Access pro wanting to switch careers.
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02/26/20 at 7:23PM UTC
Whenever I needed same-day funds, I completed a job on Takl. I had to pay $50 for a background check up front. It took 2 days for me to get an approval. After that, I added the skills that I had (mostly I put physical labor...higher chance of getting a job) and then I was off making money. I did house cleanings for about $100 bucks per listing that I bid on. They give you the option to have the money available immediately (for a fee) or direct deposited to you in 2-3 days. All of my supplies were purchased from the dollar store and I actually have a client list now. Try it out!
Anonymous
02/29/20 at 2:44AM UTC
Again these type of apps are not effective in small communities, neither is thumbtack, in fact i lost money trying these things. I'm not paying in nothing that is not a sure thing at this point in the game.
Anonymous
02/26/20 at 7:13PM UTC
Have you considered working with a temp agency? I know many who have started as a temp and become full-time employees - or temping helped them get through long stretch between jobs.
Anonymous
02/26/20 at 7:21PM UTC
Yes, but again its like I live in the middle of nowhere with no current transportation, so not much they can do for me.
Anonymous
02/27/20 at 9:53AM UTC
At risk of sounding heartless, I am going to give it to your straight...
I am currently in a similar situation. I am moving out of the area I live in though, heading to the city. There are more resources there!
What I did was reach out to the Mormon and Catholic churches. I as honest with them. I am not religious but I needed help finding a job and a ppace to live. I spoke with a bishop from the mormons and a priest from the catholics. The kormon church helped connect me with someone to live with in the city for up to 6 months while I grt in my feet and the Catholics hooked me up with a couple interviews.
If you are annoyed and unhappy with your situation, take steps to change it. It may mean taking a helping of humble pie, but help is there for those who need, ask, and are willing to work for it.
DustspotOrganizational Dev. and Talent Mgt. consultant.
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03/01/20 at 5:52AM UTC
Good for you. Those are our strong moves. Unfortunately I have three children and I'm a single mom and can't move. I wouldn't move in a second if I could
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Rebecca Jones Automotive finance
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02/26/20 at 5:11PM UTC
If they are telling you that you lack experience, how can you get it? Side hustles and volunteer experiences show initiative and can be better than not doing anything.
Obviously you need a legit paying job, but if you are striking out, you might look at alternatives to get you closer to that end goal.
Anonymous
02/26/20 at 5:43PM UTC
The point is they have never actually read my cover letter, I see all these articles on writing the perfect cover letter and employers never actually bother to read them, most have them actually told me that, they just look at who I worked for last, my qualifications and what the last job had me doing. I am frustrated and failed to convey that. Nobody will hire me to flip burgers and I have a college degree. I can't find a side hustle that works for me and I 'm at the end of my rope. Please feel free to vent, I'm mainly looking for other people who are also fed up with all the crappy job hunting advice out there.
DustspotOrganizational Dev. and Talent Mgt. consultant.
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03/01/20 at 5:51AM UTC
I'm in the same position. I get interviews but I never get hired. I'm 51 so that maybe why. I'm personable, I go the extra mile, and I meant all the side hacks that are hacking me apart. I wake up crying every morning because I know another day I don't have a job
Anonymous
03/03/20 at 9:46PM UTC
Thanks for being brave and posting that! It's getting harder and harder the older I get, I can't get out of this rat race.
Anonymous
02/26/20 at 6:32PM UTC
I agree that the job search today is way more difficult than in the past. Even career books now acknowledge this. And it's true that job searching requires the applicant to do a substantial amount of work for no guaranteed return- tailor their resume, research the company, draft the perfect cover letter, etc. And yes, some employers don't read them. I understand your frustration and desperation. Job searching sent me into depression and apathy for a long time, and I still haven't completely overcome my lack of hope. If I have any advice, it's to look for alternative means of employment- ask friends to get you a job at their employer (works for many), apply for house or commercial cleaning jobs in your area (this really helped me, and they are always looking for people), try VIPkid online teaching or online transcription jobs like Rev (didn't work for me, but has for someone I know). Take your college degree off your resume if you're applying for a job you're overqualified for. You decide what to disclose. If you can find those odd, out-of-the-way niche opportunities that fewer people apply for, you have a better chance. This approach has worked for me. Best of luck.
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Anonymous
02/26/20 at 5:31PM UTC
Volunteering is a legit way to acquire skills, sharpen what you have and build your network while you build solid references. Shortly after graduating with an MBA, I was in a car accident with a public official who rear-ended me. Since then, after surgery, I volunteered at my church and local homeless shelter. I am also facilitating classes for the homeless with job readiness/resume building. I added it to my resume. It is a part of my skill set now and people really love that I contribute to social causes and the elimination of poverty.
Anonymous
02/26/20 at 6:50PM UTC
Thanks but I'm at the point where i am homeless, I'd love to volunteer but I can't help anybody until I help myself.
Miss Chris86I've written for Romper, Fodors, Marketplace...
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02/29/20 at 1:52AM UTC
This is upsetting. But, I believe in the old proverb that there is always someone worse off than you, and therefore always someone to help. When I only had $20 in my account for groceries, I volunteered at a soup kitchen through my local church. It healed my heart to help when going through tough times. It didn't lead to a job, but it did lead to inspiration for later stories. As for your home situation, there are organizations to help. Try churches, friends, shared housing. For moral support, I always read other's stories- Sylvester Stallone, Lizzo, etc. There are people both in Hollywood and in our everyday communities who were once homeless and through hard work, determination, and the spirit of the hustle still found success in their careers. I hope that you'll be in a better situation soon!
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Rose Holland
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02/28/20 at 12:17PM UTC
So sorry to hear this. Are you working with your local resources for homeless? If you’re a victim of domestic violence, there are additional resources. It is so hard to get beyond basic needs much less focus on a career.
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Anonymous
02/26/20 at 7:09PM UTC
So saddened to hear of your challenges! Wish I had some magic words - or work for you! Try to stay positive and keep the faith that something good will come your way. Positivity attracts positivity. I'll be rooting for you!
Miss Chris86I've written for Romper, Fodors, Marketplace...
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02/26/20 at 4:47PM UTC
Sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time. But, side hustles aren't bull. I know one person who turned a hustle from a dog-walking app into a career where she has become a dog expert and is paid $50/ Hour. I myself started with free writing job boards - Upwork, Freelance Writing Gigs, Contently- to build a portfolio where now I earn an income from speaking gigs about writing and earn $1/ word. It's a roller coaster hustling your way to success. And, personally, I'm still working my way towards success. Just know that you're getting one step closer every day. Learn from failures. Nurture your connections. Seek out a mentor. And, don't forget to laugh, love, and learn along the way. Track your progress and you'll probably already find that your hustling has already paid off in small ways.
Rose Holland
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02/28/20 at 12:37PM UTC
I agree, but beware of Multi Level Marketing. Yes, a select few make it, but very few. Gigs where you are being paid for services are ones where it can work. A friend owns a dog poop picking up business.
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