How do you talk about money during this time?

Question

The way people are dealing with this time reveals a lot about their financial situation. One of my friends from NYC has gone to their summer beach house, while another got laid off and doesn't know when she'll find her next job. Although I'm trying to keep in touch with everyone and check in, I'm not sure how to broach the subject of money.

Kristyn Parker-Meyer · Answer

I haven't really. I know some that are really struggling, but I only talk about it with them if they bring it up. It's so hard right now, especially because - like you said - there's a large divide in who is doing well and who isn't.

Misherald Brown · Answer

I personally don’t bring it up.  My situation has allowed me to help some people because my job is considered essential and they allowed a lot of us that extra to help but even when they talk about it, I try to only just be a ear and listen to let them vent.

Angie McCollum · Answer

If someone feels comfortable enough to tell me she needs to express some thoughts or feelings about her financial situation, I try to listen closely with understanding and without judgment.  Sometimes people just need a brief opportunity to vent frustration.  A kind friend can't solve their problem, but can offer loving support.  If someone needs more listening than you can comfortably provide, a great suggestion is for them to check in with a financial coach.   Many churches offer complimentary or low-cost programs

Oksana Horbach · Answer

I don't think I'd broach the subject of money specifically, but you can ask open-ended questions 'how are you doing' and 'is there anything I can do to help' thereby opening the door without specifically talking money or anything.

Anonymous · Answer

Unless you are in a position to help out and are willing to do so, bringing up money is just plain rude.  Really it is none of your business.

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