Hi, I work for an organization where the “board members” are family, the HR manager is engaged to the CEO (and reports to the CEO, the director is the mother of the HR manager (CEO’s potential mother in-law). One of my colleagues a fellow office manager (Lets call her Liz) been friends with the HR manager and the HR managers mother (the director) since before they started working for the company. The family relations are not discussed publicly but most share the last name so it’s pretty clear. I’ve gotten bits and pieces of who is married to who (multiple spouses are also in lead positions) I’m the newest manager and the low man on the totem pole. I’ve been working at this company for almost 6 months. I’m putting all my effort into this company. I’m not comfortable going to the HR manager for personal related issues one of which was with the other office manager Liz previously mentioned in this post. The HR manager caused the riff between Liz and myself. During my shadow w Liz HR manager texted me giving me a task that insulted Liz (calling the exterminator).