Helping my Boyfriend Manage Life Changes
Hello ladies.
My boyfriend has just been promoted at his work and about 6 weeks ago I moved in. But it's been a bit rough ever since.
He doesn't clean, doesn't do laundry, doesn't really do much at all anymore honestly. He used to go out with his friends twice per week and now he just has sundays to do that. He just comes home and plays video games, which is a bit sad really. He doesn't do a lot of self care. when I brought up that he might be depressed, he shut it down immediately and didn't validate my feelings. I scolded him about it later and said that I am allowed to feel emotion and notice things and that because i am seeing something, he should be paying attention.
getting him to do anything around the house is a chore in and of itself and to be honest, i'm so busy cleaning up after both of us i cannot do any self care for myself. any tips?
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